DOES THE AGE MATTERS...!!!!

[x-pert]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



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[diz]

yah sometimes

[GNS]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

It may be VARY to various People...:lol:

Sometimes :yes: & Somtimes :no:... :lol: :lol: :lol:

[vilathgamuwa]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


i dnt knw machan....al i knw is " age is not a barrier under the buriya":lol: :lol: ( kidding bro)
well....age is not a prob i think....one or two years older is fine i guess....but not more:no: :no:

[chaminda7245]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



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I think age is no prob.

[mlakmal]

if u realy luv somebody ... i mean realy realy :yes: age shldnt b a prob

[prasadana2]

ya i guess age matters .....

[DJ.Parker]

ya i guess age matters .....


Nope. Ppl tend to think age matters due to social and religon taboos

[Lil_chica]

ahahhah lol yeha ofcourse it matters when it comes to marrying lol....gd topic...

[JaGuaR]

i think age matters a lot..da guy shud be older @ least few years than da gal since most of da responsibilties is shouldered by da man in da family & with age comes experience...

[maleemsg]

Nope. Ppl tend to think age matters due to social and religon taboos

yep i agree with u

[x-pert]

Ok now some of you have told that age matters. But why...???

I need a good explanation for this to tell to my Malli, who is going out with a girl who is 6 years elder to him. :love: :D :lol:

But personally I beleive age is not a problem as far as love concerns....
If the both parties are matching and if they have the understanding, Why care about the age... !!! :D

[milindayu]

if u realy luv somebody ... i mean realy realy :yes: age shldnt b a prob

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

i think age matters a lot..da guy shud be older @ least few years than da gal since most of da responsibilties is shouldered by da man in da family & with age comes experience...

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

[Tuffey]

I think thats not matter if both parties love each other very much............ and also it should be 1-3 yrs of age difference ..........because women will age faster than men.........:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

[MCLINER]

it matters

[Kinu]

it matters

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

[MCLINER]

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
:D;)

[JaGuaR]

moko mae....??denna mala kadanawada? (mcliner n kinu) :lol::lol::lol::lol:

[diecroos]

well i too agree with gajuar. the boy should be older than the girl. cos, the boy should look after the girl and protect her and for that he should have more experience than the girl has. you may say but y can't girl get experience and protect herself. but you all know that is not practical actually.

[JAAN 2 nAPs]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



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I will tell you Y always girls should be under the guys age,It's because of when a girl reach to age of 40 they look much older than a guy who is in 40.so at that time the guy thinks his wife looks much older than other womens and he may try to ignore her.so think what would happen if a guy is younger than the wife then the problem will be worst.It's affecting to the girl not for men because simply when it's happen her husband is trying to look at other womens.:yes: :yes: . even a men in 40 and a one in 50 years there are not much differences.but a when it comes to women it's different.so what is best is for a guy is to have a girl who is younger than you.:D :D :D :D :D :D

[JAAN 2 nAPs]

I think thats not matter if both parties love each other very much............ and also it should be 1-3 yrs of age difference ..........because women will age faster than men.........:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
:yes: :yes: thats what i mentioned on top

[shalinda]

no i dont think age is not important but love is important

[x-pert]

I will tell you Y always girls should be under the guys age,It's because of when a girl reach to age of 40 they look much older than a guy who is in 40.so at that time the guy thinks his wife looks much older than other womens and he may try to ignore her.so think what would happen if a guy is younger than the wife then the problem will be worst.It's affecting to the girl not for men because simply when it's happen her husband is trying to look at other womens.:yes: :yes: . even a men in 40 and a one in 50 years there are not much differences.but a when it comes to women it's different.so what is best is for a guy is to have a girl who is younger than you.:D :D :D :D :D :D


I am sorry, But this scenario is out of the question... ;)
Coz my Brother looks very matured and that girl looks really younger to him eventhough she is 6 years elder to him... :yes:

And when talking about the responsibilities, She has not been exposed to the real worled very much. (She is the little girl of her parents.) But my bro is working now and I am pretty much sure that he has more experience than that girl...

Now what... :D :D :D :D

[x-pert]

i think age matters a lot..da guy shud be older @ least few years than da gal since most of da responsibilties is shouldered by da man in da family & with age comes experience...


Partially true.. ;)

Ya with age comes the experience... But what if the person has not been exposed to the real world.... There may be many reasons for that.

What I beleive is the exposure to the problems, work and to the world provides you the experience.

Besides, experiences are the mistakes done by people.. ;) Isn't it.....
So how can you make mistakes if you havn't done anything dude...??
:lol: :lol:

[DJ.Parker]

I am sorry, But this scenario is out of the question... ;)
Coz my Brother looks very matured and that girl looks really younger to him eventhough she is 6 years elder to him... :yes:

And when talking about the responsibilities, She has not been exposed to the real worled very much. (She is the little girl of her parents.) But my bro is working now and I am pretty much sure that he has more experience than that girl...

Now what... :D :D :D :D


Ok I said age doesnt matter before but shes 6 years older than him........:confused: well that's not good if u look at the issue from the biological side;)

[x-pert]

Ok I said age doesnt matter before but shes 6 years older than him........:confused: well that's not good if u look at the issue from the biological side;)


Mona Biological sides da machang... Mee pissa kiyanawa oota lamai oonath nahalu... oone mee gaaniwa witharalu... :lol: :love: :lol:

So this situ also out of the question.... :D :D :lol:

[DJ.Parker]

Mona Biological sides da machang... Mee pissa kiyanawa oota lamai oonath nahalu... oone mee gaaniwa witharalu... :lol: :love: :lol:

So this situ also out of the question.... :D :D :lol:

ehema bane bun. If he's 44 she'll be 50 :P and can I know his age pls if u dont mind? Is she like ur bro?

[x-pert]

ehema bane bun. If he's 44 she'll be 50 :P and can I know his age pls if u dont mind? Is she like ur bro?

mattage wayasa 24. Girl is 30 now.
Ya man.. This girl really loves him. And both of them dont want to stop it... I tried ma best mate.. now I m sick of this...


Ayi bung mee okkoma love seen matama wenne.... :lol: :( :lol:

[DJ.Parker]

mattage wayasa 24. Girl is 30 now.
Ya man.. This girl really loves him. And both of them dont want to stop it... I tried ma best mate.. now I m sick of this...


Ayi bung mee okkoma love seen matama wenne.... :lol: :( :lol:


ubata neme ube mallita/aiyata :P and well if they love each other let them be... it's their decision ne. N if sumthing goes wrong it's because of their own fault. So.....

[x-pert]

ubata neme ube mallita/aiyata :P and well if they love each other let them be... it's their decision ne. N if sumthing goes wrong it's because of their own fault. So.....


Me mage malli machang..
Mata wenawa kiyuwe.... Balapanko mage anith thread eka... love seen eka mage... (Do you beleive the horroscope) Thats why I said like that man... :)

Ya I guess you re correct...

[negombobuwa]

I think age shouldn't be a prob when it comes to marrying cause there are people ou there who thinks they are older but act like kids and vise versa so if u really do love somebody it shouldn't be a barrier. Specially in western country's (even in canada where I live) i have seen so many guys getting married with little bit older gals. It all depends on how U face problems and taking responsibilities.

[azrah ghaffoor]

repost..lol

[x-pert]

repost..lol


Sorry.. But how come that be.. I have never posted about this scene earlier dude... :D

[azrah ghaffoor]

Sorry.. But how come that be.. I have never posted about this scene earlier dude... :D
dude?im a gal not a guy..lol....................no u dint post som1 else had posted nyway its k u dint know;)

[nabil]

well i think age matters..

[chamithal]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

Well! Marrying some one is not about how old that person is or so... It is about sharing the smiles, laughters, pains and sorrows... If you feel tht the person you love is the one that you want to be with and if you can trust that person... Go on...

[mlakmal]

Well! Marrying some one is not about how old that person is or so... It is about sharing the smiles, laughters, pains and sorrows... If you feel tht the person you love is the one that you want to be with and if you can trust that person... Go on...


ya ur damn ryt :yes: :yes: :yes:

[chamithal]

ya ur damn ryt :yes: :yes: :yes:

Yes machan! There are people I know (Even a cousin of mine) who have Girlfriends who are elder than them! No big deal... But still some say that women grow elder (By physical appearance) quite rapidly than men... That's why it has been the usual way for a guy to marry a younger girl! Yet! If you love.. No case ne?

[mlakmal]

Yes machan! There are people I know (Even a cousin of mine) who have Girlfriends who are elder than them! No big deal... But still some say that women grow elder (By physical appearance) quite rapidly than men... That's why it has been the usual way for a guy to marry a younger girl! Yet! If you love.. No case ne?


ya mach if u realy luv a person and if u and he/she as common understanding their wont be a prob ryt...

[handy_black]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



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first thing is Love age not needed:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

[ram4mira]

OK........ This is a tricky question but i ll give my answer..............................
Some times age MATTERS specially if u selected the wrong GIRL............:yes: :yes:
Age means EXPERIENCE.............So if you selected the wrong girl and if she's elder than you, you are going to face a real disaster.........and you know what i mean:( :( :(
BUT if the girl is younger than you and if shes NOT the right 1 you can handle it............BECAUSE U HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE........

BUT AGE IS NOT A PROBLEM IF U HAVE CHOSEN THE RIGHT 1...........

So the ADVICE
CHOOOOOSE THE RIGHT ONE.......;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)

[x-pert]

dude?im a gal not a guy..lol....................no u dint post som1 else had posted nyway its k u dint know;)


Hey... Ooops.. Sorry Sis... :)

[x-pert]

OK........ This is a tricky question but i ll give my answer..............................
Some times age MATTERS specially if u selected the wrong GIRL............:yes: :yes:
Age means EXPERIENCE.............So if you selected the wrong girl and if she's elder than you, you are going to face a real disaster.........and you know what i mean:( :( :(
BUT if the girl is younger than you and if shes NOT the right 1 you can handle it............BECAUSE U HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE........

BUT AGE IS NOT A PROBLEM IF U HAVE CHOSEN THE RIGHT 1...........

So the ADVICE
CHOOOOOSE THE RIGHT ONE.......;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)

No... With age also comes the experience. But as I said earlier, with the exposure to the world, comes the real experience. Not just the age. :yes:

Ya as you hv said, If its the right person then it will not be a problem... So lets see if she is the right person... ;)

[Da Big Wolf]

ok.. X-pert.. here goes..

The problem with this thread.... is all people are short sighted.. make your bro sit down and tell him this !!

Bro,

IF you really love this girl... ok.. fine by me... I am not the one who's gonna marry her... I will be always there as your big bro.. but hear me out.

Bro.. when you are 20.. she will be 26... and 20 means you are at the age of discovering things in the world... the age where you get pissed drunk at a rock concert and pass out on top of a hooker !! ...it's the age that you tend to get a tat in your butt saying " I love TITS" .. It's the age that you moan about Anna Nicol Smith's TITS !!

...but... bro... 26 for a woman means.. it's the time she will be thinking of marriage... a steady job, a steady man with a far sight to take her life forward... it's her time to dream about a Nice car, a warm home and endless days resting her head on her hubbies chest and sipping warm coffee..

Bro, are you ready to give them up bro?? and think forward.. when you are 26, she will be 32 .... it's the time she will be complaining about her EGGS being not strong as she was 26 and wants children... she wants to have a bank account with excess money for a rainy day !! .... and Bro... 26 for you mean.. it's the time you think of buying that nice car.. and that nice house... so... are you ready to give up everything and loan money to support your first child.. cause child birth these days cost a "BOMB"

Fine... if you still don't agree with me.. and still ready to give up all for the love of her.. then let me tempt you like this..

Bro.. when you are 40.. she will be 46.... eeerrr... and when you are 45.. she will be 51 !!! NOW WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WANT TO BANG A 50 YEAR OLD HAG??? ... think of this way bro... till you get the need for Viagra.. you will be banging a 50 year old ... <<<<puke>>>>>

Sound a bit mockery the last para !! .... HELL !!

as for your original Q ..... YES !! age does matter... not in the sense of SEX or LOVE.. rather in the sense of Difference of Ideas and it will be a problem about bridging that GAP ...

But.. still if your brother persist and wants to marry that girl... DUDE.. then it's safe to assume that babe has better tits than Anna Nicol Smith !!

AND THAT MY FRIEND !!! .. I will marry even if I am still in the cot !!

[x-pert]

ok.. X-pert.. here goes..

The problem with this thread.... is all people are short sighted.. make your bro sit down and tell him this !!

Bro,

IF you really love this girl... ok.. fine by me... I am not the one who's gonna marry her... I will be always there as your big bro.. but hear me out.

Bro.. when you are 20.. she will be 26... and 20 means you are at the age of discovering things in the world... the age where you get pissed drunk at a rock concert and pass out on top of a hooker !! ...it's the age that you tend to get a tat in your butt saying " I love TITS" .. It's the age that you moan about Anna Nicol Smith's TITS !!

...but... bro... 26 for a woman means.. it's the time she will be thinking of marriage... a steady job, a steady man with a far sight to take her life forward... it's her time to dream about a Nice car, a warm home and endless days resting her head on her hubbies chest and sipping warm coffee..

Bro, are you ready to give them up bro?? and think forward.. when you are 26, she will be 32 .... it's the time she will be complaining about her EGGS being not strong as she was 26 and wants children... she wants to have a bank account with excess money for a rainy day !! .... and Bro... 26 for you mean.. it's the time you think of buying that nice car.. and that nice house... so... are you ready to give up everything and loan money to support your first child.. cause child birth these days cost a "BOMB"

Fine... if you still don't agree with me.. and still ready to give up all for the love of her.. then let me tempt you like this..

Bro.. when you are 40.. she will be 46.... eeerrr... and when you are 45.. she will be 51 !!! NOW WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WANT TO BANG A 50 YEAR OLD HAG??? ... think of this way bro... till you get the need for Viagra.. you will be banging a 50 year old ... <<<<puke>>>>>

Sound a bit mockery the last para !! .... HELL !!

as for your original Q ..... YES !! age does matter... not in the sense of SEX or LOVE.. rather in the sense of Difference of Ideas and it will be a problem about bridging that GAP ...

But.. still if your brother persist and wants to marry that girl... DUDE.. then it's safe to assume that babe has better tits than Anna Nicol Smith !!

AND THAT MY FRIEND !!! .. I will marry even if I am still in the cot !!

Thanx buddy.. Great stuff mate.. Thanks.. Lets see now.... !!! ;) ;) ;) ;)

[azrah ghaffoor]

Hey... Ooops.. Sorry Sis... :)
lol its k

[x-pert]

lol its k


;)

[snowgirl]

I think life can be so much easier wit a mature guy [means few yrs older]...from wht i ve heard girlz r mature than boys who r in the same age level... so it is hard to deal with immature people :) ... Specially when there's a problem..if the two r on the same page of maturity, its easier to deal :) ...

So I'd say it's better if the guy is older....then again it depends on the person :)

[puja]

i think boy must be elder than gal

[shanX]

:lol: Shud ask Aishwaryaa and Abishek

[azrah ghaffoor]

:lol: Shud ask Aishwaryaa and Abishek
hehe yeaa.:D :lol: :lol:

[Kalindugayan]

I dont think so

[x-pert]

I dont think so

Aiyo bung.. Nikan modaya wage parana eewa ohe udata adinna epa bung... tikak date eka balala adapan udata...

[lahirumam]

Don't think so...as long as they understand each other...everything will be just fine ;) ;) :D:D

[nagaya]

DAMN on these useless traditions,i hate it,
AGE doesn't matter,but love is

[mbj]

i dnt thnk age matters, my grl is elder dan me in a few mnths bt we have no probs, so it really dsnt matter,

[Kalegana]

No Pro Bro!!! If within 5 yrs!!

And some thing "Old Is Gold":D :D :D :rofl:

[sampath312]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

1.Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why.

this depend on the way of marraige according to the normal tradition ppl get married to love and make a family and in the other hand its our duty as a human to keep our genration going..if so age matter for some extent ..its a biological reason more than the tradition i hope you all can understand ,but some ppl just get married for love and have each other (mostly in common europian trend) so they just get married to make love and enjoy life so if it is your purpose age doesnt matters...so age depend on the which kind pf marriage life you gonna have


2.Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...

usually girls get older faster than boys ...not in years but phicsically ,so that is why it come to tradition...but for a happy marriage life this doesnt bother much..it come to action lately in marraige life

[sampath312]

Aiyo bung.. Nikan modaya wage parana eewa ohe udata adinna epa bung... tikak date eka balala adapan udata...


mage uththaray may aiyata data athidha balanna..thawa madhinam kathakaramu:oo:

[ereshthush]

''{:lol:}''

[x-pert]

mage uththaray may aiyata data athidha balanna..thawa madhinam kathakaramu:oo:

ElaKiri machang :D

Habai dan meh thread eka saahenna paranayi machang.. All are old now :rofl:

Anyway you answer is good :)

[sampath312]

ElaKiri machang :D

Habai dan meh thread eka saahenna paranayi machang.. All are old now :rofl:

Anyway you answer is good :)


aulak naha aiya math parana porak ney

[rsanda]

not for me heeheheee

[chalitha135]

ahhh no no age dsnt matter i knw dat very well than odas :D:D:D

[ratedrkoman]

i dnt knw machan....al i knw is " age is not a barrier under the buriya":lol: :lol: ( kidding bro)
well....age is not a prob i think....one or two years older is fine i guess....but not more:no: :no:

yeha true one or two years is jst alryt......but like if the wife gonna be like is 5 years or more elder it wnt be a marriage life it will be like bro n sister (if u knw what im talking)

[chiraa]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
Macho check these...Got this from yahoo...:D
Resolved Question
Is it ok to marry a girl elder than me in age?what r the consequences if i get married to a girl who is elder?

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

It is ok as long as you are a mature adult and not a child.
At the end of the day it will just be you and her.
All of the other people and their opinions do not matter.
Good Luck..

Other Answers



*well it depends on what marriage means to you:

Do you love her unconditionally? If the answer is yes, then it shouldn't matter.


Older women are usually more experienced in many ways.. cooking, cleaning, sex, conversation, etc...

Maybe you've hit the jackpot!

All the best!


*It actually depends upon how elder she is than you and how the society is going to take this

In india people dont do this because there are two reasons the society here is male dominant and if a girl is trying to give birth after a age of 30, the chances of normal delivery is low


But in other countries things are different people dont worry about others personal life(its good actually)

So as the another answerer told if it is about uncoditional love go ahead


Wishes

*Age is not always important, but it can depend on how big the difference is. You have to be prepared for "toyboy" jokes and the like. You also have to consider the implications of you each having friends in different age brackets, and how they will inter-relate. If it's only a few years, it won't matter, but more than about 5 or 6 years may have an impact.
My opinion is, if you are asking this question, then you already have misgivings, and should seriously consider your true feelings. If you truely loved her, you wouldn't even think about age differences.


*Yeah it's ok!!! I think there are more pros than cons.


*am assuming this girl is alot older than yourself? I am only one year older than my fiance so that's not really a big deal to anyone. My nanny was nine years older than my pop pop but no one ever knew other than her immediate family. I mean sometimes if there is a big age difference it matters alot to the woman (i.e. trying to 'look' younger, compete with younger women). Sometimes the guys mom has a prob. with this too. My last bf before my fiance was 13 years younger than me, but I have children that were closer to his age (I was 34 he was 21..ha) than I. I think if you truly love someone and you want to be with ONLY that person and you are faithful, then age shouldn't matter to two adults.


*A few years age difference does not matter at all. An age difference could only be a problem if it is very large or if the two of you are at very different places in life. It's absolutely ok to marry someone a few years older than you, as long as you love each other and are compatible.

Best of luck!


*My boyfriend's father married a woman 20 years his junior, if that tells you anything.


*Jugsi Figure it out U will b married 2 hot older elder? girl? gal. So why not marry hot cougar ( that is older woman)?


*Hello Jugsy Try it since girls married older guys for years.


Mama thibuna answers tika okkoma damma onna ...:D

Success for you machang! Without any doubts! ;) :D :yes: :yes: :D :D

[zainab]

Hi Guys and Gals....

Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated... :yes:

Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa.... :D



:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
HEY BOY DA AGE DO MATTER COS DA GUY HAS TO LIKE WISE BE IN CHARGE OF DA GAL SPECIALLY AFTER MARRAIGE...BUT UNTILL I KNW DA GAL CAN BE 1 OR 2 YEARS ELDER..<BUT IM 2 CONFUSED~LOL~>BUT ANY WAYS ALL DA BEST FOR U YOU x-pert~~~LOL~~~

***BUT ANY WAYS GUD TOPIC BOY***

[heshan123]

Most of the weak girls tend to think that the guy should be elder. Its a complete myth. There is nothing like that. This is an old concept of Sri Lankans. No one dares to challenge them. Yet there is no truth in them. Just like horoscopes.

[Wal Bada]

Age matters. I don't want to marry a girl less than 18 or more than 35. I'll be having a mighty difficult time when she's pregnant.

[sudhara43]

The answer is simple, girls are getting old faster than the boys.

After 10 years u gyes understand that :yes::yes:

[chiraa]

:S :S Meka hena parana thread ekak neda?? :S :S
Math modaya wage reply kala... :S :S

[buddhi9077]

i think age is not a problem

[samiram]

age is not a barrier..
below the buriya kiyanne..
kata kahanwata neme nee...
:P