should women concentrate more on a job or in being a housewife?????????

[milindha]

should women concentrate more on a job or in being a housewife?????????
GIV ME UR IDEAS ABT THIS I HAV A SPEECH TO GIV SO I NEED THIS SERVEY PLZ PARTICIPATE IN THIS POLL:) :) :)

[Alaya]

Of course she should work if she likes & if her husband likes.

but she should select a job which will facilitate her to do her household work well.

so a job like teaching or a govt sector job will be best.

and specially keep in my a mother should be with their children at least 3-4 hours a day.

so I think budget proposal to give half pay & no pay leave to mothers after childbirth is a good one.

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

[milindha]

ela macho thks 4 ur ideas.neway nice idea:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

[maleemsg]

hmmm...

mehemai...ada samajaya pavathina vidiyata saha jeewan viyadamath ekka baladdith lady kenek job ekak karana eka godak watinawa...anika job ekak nisa genu kenekuta nidahasa..athma abimanaya wage godak dewal lebenawa...
e wagema thaman iagana gaththa dein sathutak labannath puluwan..samahara welawata e karana rekiyawa samajayata godak prayojanawath wena rassawak wennath puluwan.... hebeiii ..mehema deyak thiyenawa...
mama vishwasa karana vidiyata genu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne eya karana job eka wath labana salary ekawath matha newei...eya eya jeewath wena paula ethule kochchara hodata thamange katayuthu karanawada kiyana eka mathai..mokada gehenu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne hoda amma kenek ..hoda wife kenek wena tharamata..eyage job ekath ekka e de karanna beri nam eya job eken ain wena eka hodai..mokada api awurudu 55n job eken ain wenawa..eth ape ge athule thiyena bedeem mulu jeewitha kalema thiyenawa...anika lasana paulak nethi geniyekuta ...hathara maha nidane pahala unath ethi wedak nehe....

sorry hithe thiyena okkoma sinhalen ma kiuwa pehediliwa kiyanna puluwan nisa mokada english walin kiyanna giyoth adahas hariyatama kiyanna beri wei...mama meka kiuwe job ekak karana girl kenek widiyata..:)

[shaggy]

I earn enough money.so I won’t her 2 be a good house wife 4 me & a good mother 4 my kids…

[Alaya]

Hi all EK members,

This guy Milindha is collecting ideas for his speech at Uni.

Pls help him by expressing ur ideas & voting.

:D :D :D :yes: :yes: :yes:

[shaggy]

hmmm...

mehemai...ada samajaya pavathina vidiyata saha jeewan viyadamath ekka baladdith lady kenek job ekak karana eka godak watinawa...anika job ekak nisa genu kenekuta nidahasa..athma abimanaya wage godak dewal lebenawa...
e wagema thaman iagana gaththa dein sathutak labannath puluwan..samahara welawata e karana rekiyawa samajayata godak prayojanawath wena rassawak wennath puluwan.... hebeiii ..mehema deyak thiyenawa...
mama vishwasa karana vidiyata genu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne eya karana job eka wath labana salary ekawath matha newei...eya eya jeewath wena paula ethule kochchara hodata thamange katayuthu karanawada kiyana eka mathai..mokada gehenu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne hoda amma kenek ..hoda wife kenek wena tharamata..eyage job ekath ekka e de karanna beri nam eya job eken ain wena eka hodai..mokada api awurudu 55n job eken ain wenawa..eth ape ge athule thiyena bedeem mulu jeewitha kalema thiyenawa...anika lasana paulak nethi geniyekuta ...hathara maha nidane pahala unath ethi wedak nehe....

sorry hithe thiyena okkoma sinhalen ma kiuwa pehediliwa kiyanna puluwan nisa mokada english walin kiyanna giyoth adahas hariyatama kiyanna beri wei...mama meka kiuwe job ekak karana girl kenek widiyata..:)

great!!

[milindha]

thks pal

[maleemsg]

great!!

thanx!!

[Alaya]

I earn enough money.so I won’t her 2 be a good house wife 4 me & a good mother 4 my kids…

eka amma kenek athida?

mokada umbata hama thanma kids lane

jk, ok :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[shaggy]

eka amma kenek athida?

mokada umbata hama thanma kids lane

jk, ok :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

hamathanama kidslanam hama thanama ammalath inna epai gon alayoo ;)

amuthuwen ammala mokatada???

[Alaya]

hamathanama kidslanam hama thanama ammalath inna epai gon alayoo ;)

amuthuwen ammala mokatada???

ado prasiddiye gona kiyanna epa

onenam PM ekak evapan gona kiyala

:lol: :lol:

[nEoN_wHitE]

housewife ofcourse:D

[nEoN_wHitE]

I earn enough money.so I won’t her 2 be a good house wife 4 me & a good mother 4 my kids…
kids ayee..
ammo hena set ekak hadana wage kalpanawa:P:P

[JaGuaR]

hmmm...

mehemai...ada samajaya pavathina vidiyata saha jeewan viyadamath ekka baladdith lady kenek job ekak karana eka godak watinawa...anika job ekak nisa genu kenekuta nidahasa..athma abimanaya wage godak dewal lebenawa...
e wagema thaman iagana gaththa dein sathutak labannath puluwan..samahara welawata e karana rekiyawa samajayata godak prayojanawath wena rassawak wennath puluwan.... hebeiii ..mehema deyak thiyenawa...
mama vishwasa karana vidiyata genu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne eya karana job eka wath labana salary ekawath matha newei...eya eya jeewath wena paula ethule kochchara hodata thamange katayuthu karanawada kiyana eka mathai..mokada gehenu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne hoda amma kenek ..hoda wife kenek wena tharamata..eyage job ekath ekka e de karanna beri nam eya job eken ain wena eka hodai..mokada api awurudu 55n job eken ain wenawa..eth ape ge athule thiyena bedeem mulu jeewitha kalema thiyenawa...anika lasana paulak nethi geniyekuta ...hathara maha nidane pahala unath ethi wedak nehe....

sorry hithe thiyena okkoma sinhalen ma kiuwa pehediliwa kiyanna puluwan nisa mokada english walin kiyanna giyoth adahas hariyatama kiyanna beri wei...mama meka kiuwe job ekak karana girl kenek widiyata..:)

:yes: :yes: :yes: totally agreed...well said akki...:D

[shaggy]

ado prasiddiye gona kiyanna epa

onenam PM ekak evapan gona kiyala

:lol: :lol:

ok ok mama pm ekakinuth gona kiyala yawwa lolzzz :lol:

[shaggy]

kids ayee..
ammo hena set ekak hadana wage kalpanawa:P:P

aduma 3i wadima 5i

;)

[iboo]

i support in women concentrating on being a housewife...

in most of the cases where a women works after marriage, they experience problems. For example, when husband return from work, no food in house, which lead them to go out with his friend to eat n spend less time in house together. which also makes the husband feel he doesnt get enough from her n takes the marriage life to a critical point.

After having children it is not a good idea at all to work coz children needs mothers love and caring, all the time, they need mother to be with them n make them feel safe with her, the early ages when a child develops, its necessary mother to be with them.

in some cases when mother n father work, the children feel they are left behind and they see their friends more important than a family. They start goin out n they are mislead ... hope u got the point :D still more in mind but this is gettin looong :D:D:D

[milindha]

elaela thks iboo

[shalinda]

voted

[iboo]

elaela thks iboo
no probs :)

[hashii]

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....... its like this... as the cost of living is getting higher and higher it will be better for the family economy...... and also a woman can be her own if she is earning herself...... but in my view.... if a husband can take care of his wife and children and if he is in a state to give them what they need.... so its better for a woman to stay home and take care of her family....... If my husband can take care of my family well, i will do the same

[milindha]

thks every 1 who voted n commented

[maleemsg]

thks every 1 who voted n commented


hey what happend to your speech??:)

[milindha]

itz there on Monday i'm getting ready 4 it.i need some more votes if u can tel ur friends to participate in this poll k.thks

[Aphoo]

From what I have experienced, there’s no difference to the family if wife is going for a job or not… In my family I have 4 elder sisters and 1 younger sister… My mum was a president of some volunteer women’s committee…I guess she was with that committee for more than 30 years…. She was working very hard with that committee and proudly I can say that’s the most active and most famous women’s committee in Maldives…
Sometimes we can’t even see her for one whole day...But we got love, care n everything from her, she is a good mother and a wife, and because of her today we have a gr8 family and she has 6 children that she can proudly say she have 6 children…..There’s no point mother should be at home all the time.. Its ok we can say mothers should give love and care for us all the time... If she is at home and not caring or not giving any love, what’s the point of staying as a housewife…? I can see from our Sl neighbors, some are housewives, they always stay in home and only hugging the children, giving food to them and buying nice clothes to them.. But they don’t tell what’s wrong and right… They just only tell them to study and they don’t do anything if they are not studying.. Its ok some believe if it’s a mother also they cant force to do anything, but when the children come home with the report and if they fail, mother starts to shout and beat.. What’s the point of doing that on that time... Can he/she change the result that time.. Definitely Can’t… Being a good mother is not only hugging, giving foods, clothes and staying with them for 24 hrs… If mother knows how to give love n care and being as a good wife to her husband and if she has ability to face the community there’s no point of being home as a housewife…. Every one has their right even if it’s a husband or a wife… This is what I believe.

[nAPs2JAAN]

VOTED :yes: :yes: :yes:

[jithy]

I think it's the best thing when husband and wife can do the household and kids raising together sow they can both have jobs and equally spend time with their children!!! a fathers attention and love is important too.....:yes: :yes:

[milindha]

From what I have experienced, there’s no difference to the family if wife is going for a job or not… In my family I have 4 elder sisters and 1 younger sister… My mum was a president of some volunteer women’s committee…I guess she was with that committee for more than 30 years…. She was working very hard with that committee and proudly I can say that’s the most active and most famous women’s committee in Maldives…
Sometimes we can’t even see her for one whole day...But we got love, care n everything from her, she is a good mother and a wife, and because of her today we have a gr8 family and she has 6 children that she can proudly say she have 6 children…..There’s no point mother should be at home all the time.. Its ok we can say mothers should give love and care for us all the time... If she is at home and not caring or not giving any love, what’s the point of staying as a housewife…? I can see from our Sl neighbors, some are housewives, they always stay in home and only hugging the children, giving food to them and buying nice clothes to them.. But they don’t tell what’s wrong and right… They just only tell them to study and they don’t do anything if they are not studying.. Its ok some believe if it’s a mother also they cant force to do anything, but when the children come home with the report and if they fail, mother starts to shout and beat.. What’s the point of doing that on that time... Can he/she change the result that time.. Definitely Can’t… Being a good mother is not only hugging, giving foods, clothes and staying with them for 24 hrs… If mother knows how to give love n care and being as a good wife to her husband and if she has ability to face the community there’s no point of being home as a housewife…. Every one has their right even if it’s a husband or a wife… This is what I believe.

thanks 4 ur words pal

[milindha]

VOTED :yes: :yes: :yes:
thks 4 voting:cool: :cool: :cool:

[milindha]

I think it's the best thing when husband and wife can do the household and kids raising together sow they can both have jobs and equally spend time with their children!!! a fathers attention and love is important too.....:yes: :yes:
nice idea pal

[chamithal]

well... a man cannot be a good house-wife.... :D:D:D but he can do a job... So if a woman does not become one... who'd be ???

[Aphoo]

thanks 4 ur words pal
wc :D :D :D

[milindha]

well... a man cannot be a good house-wife.... :D:D:D but he can do a job... So if a woman does not become one... who'd be ???
ya macho u r correct :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[DANEWMEN]

i think its depend on how our financial standing and the understanding about each other, a person like me (middle class) think both must work untill we have come to a position that we can stand on our foot.

growing children, cooking and housekeeping its a shared job, that both can do by helping each other.

so my vote go's to : wife should work,

[milindha]

i think its depend on how our financial standing and the understanding about each other, a person like me (middle class) think both must work untill we have come to a position that we can stand on our foot.

growing children, cooking and housekeeping its a shared job, that both can do by helping each other.

so my vote go's to : wife should work,

thks macho:yes: :yes: :yes:

[nEoN_wHitE]

well... a man cannot be a good house-wife.... :D:D:D but he can do a job... So if a woman does not become one... who'd be ???
hahaha eka ne kiyane:D:D

[nEoN_wHitE]

i think its depend on how our financial standing and the understanding about each other, a person like me (middle class) think both must work untill we have come to a position that we can stand on our foot.

growing children, cooking and housekeeping its a shared job, that both can do by helping each other.

so my vote go's to : wife should work,
yup... u have a good point there:yes:
and if u r rich or sumthign or can manage da family by only ur income.. den ur wife can stay home:D

[crazyfool]

Umm I didn't vote because the option I wanted to vote for isn't there. I think it's up to the women, don't you? :confused:

[Tuffey]

As a working girl I think it's good if a girl is working and support her husband by earning.... that also will gives her a path for career progress and she can have a self prestige and financial security too..... but in the other hand she must learn how to balance her family life and work...... there are loads of women in Sri lanka who are in the top management leading good family lives.......

Another important thing is that husbands should be more understanding and very helpful to them in every way....... that means not to do all house hold duties but to support her when she needed help........So I guess women are strong enough to handle both duties well.......... So no point of avoiding women from work because that is not practical even in the today's economy..........:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :D :D

[milindha]

Umm I didn't vote because the option I wanted to vote for isn't there. I think it's up to the women, don't you? :confused:
macho ya itz up to d gal thama bt i hav to decide on my topic ne so cant giv ne other elective sry ya:sorry: :sorry: :sorry: :sorry: :sorry:

[crazyfool]

macho ya itz up to d gal thama bt i hav to decide on my topic ne so cant giv ne other elective sry ya:sorry: :sorry: :sorry: :sorry: :sorry:

Oh I c... mang dane naha banz... I'm not a girl :lol:

[milindha]

hehe kk

[milindha]

thks tuffie

[nEoN_wHitE]

Oh I c... mang dane naha banz... I'm not a girl :lol:
hehe sure ne:P

[Tuffey]

thks tuffie

np bro......... you are welcome........:D :D

[jithy]

nice idea pal

u r welcome!!:D

[jithy]

As a working girl I think it's good if a girl is working and support her husband by earning.... that also will gives her a path for career progress and she can have a self prestige and financial security too..... but in the other hand she must learn how to balance her family life and work...... there are loads of women in Sri lanka who are in the top management leading good family lives.......

Another important thing is that husbands should be more understanding and very helpful to them in every way....... that means not to do all house hold duties but to support her when she needed help........So I guess women are strong enough to handle both duties well.......... So no point of avoiding women from work because that is not practical even in the today's economy..........:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :D :D

totally agree!!!!:yes: :yes:

[peemy]

hmmm...

mehemai...ada samajaya pavathina vidiyata saha jeewan viyadamath ekka baladdith lady kenek job ekak karana eka godak watinawa...anika job ekak nisa genu kenekuta nidahasa..athma abimanaya wage godak dewal lebenawa...
e wagema thaman iagana gaththa dein sathutak labannath puluwan..samahara welawata e karana rekiyawa samajayata godak prayojanawath wena rassawak wennath puluwan.... hebeiii ..mehema deyak thiyenawa...
mama vishwasa karana vidiyata genu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne eya karana job eka wath labana salary ekawath matha newei...eya eya jeewath wena paula ethule kochchara hodata thamange katayuthu karanawada kiyana eka mathai..mokada gehenu kenek ge jeewithaya sarthaka wenne hoda amma kenek ..hoda wife kenek wena tharamata..eyage job ekath ekka e de karanna beri nam eya job eken ain wena eka hodai..mokada api awurudu 55n job eken ain wenawa..eth ape ge athule thiyena bedeem mulu jeewitha kalema thiyenawa...anika lasana paulak nethi geniyekuta ...hathara maha nidane pahala unath ethi wedak nehe....

sorry hithe thiyena okkoma sinhalen ma kiuwa pehediliwa kiyanna puluwan nisa mokada english walin kiyanna giyoth adahas hariyatama kiyanna beri wei...mama meka kiuwe job ekak karana girl kenek widiyata..:)

YAAAAAAA MAMATH OYAGE IDEAS WALATA EKANGAI..:yes: :yes: :yes:

[Tissaka]

ane mang dannehe appa.. :baffled:

[milindha]

hm ok no prob no idea nam just vote k

[crazyfool]

hehe sure ne:P

Owe sure... umbata one nang awith balane, habi aith gedara yane hambuwene naha, 1 way ticket kanathe ta. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


(jk ;) )

[heshan123]

eka amma kenek athida?

mokada umbata hama thanma kids lane

jk, ok :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[milindha]

hey ppl plz help me to keep this in top till Monday k:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

[Lil_chica]

depends how much she get payed..........:rolleyes:

[milindha]

thks lil chica

[milindha]

thks every 1

[saraprobe]

Damn, SLANKAN women HAVE TO concentrate more on a job, THEY ARE LIKE PRISONERS @ HOME

[milindha]

Damn, SLANKAN women HAVE TO concentrate more on a job, THEY ARE LIKE PRISONERS @ HOME
ok nice idea bt i dont agree with d word prisnors???;) ;) ;) ;)