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teescha
05-25-2006, 10:19 PM
This small incident happened today...when my husband and I were travelling from Colombo to Gampaha in a AC bus. As you all know what is happening in the backseats of an AC bus (Right?). Suddenly he wanted to kiss me. He was really making advances towards me. I rejected saying "cant u do it wen we go home?". I tried several times to explain...he wud say "we are married right?"..."look at the backseats and how they kiss and touch eachother.... cant I touch my "Geni"?....they are really in love" (and a lot more "Bana"). My question is whatever you see in the backseat... is it really love? or sex?

I started saying that love is not sex. And the day he said that he loves me, I am his responsibility and he is responsible for my character and life. I believe its both spouses' responsibility to respect eachother and not to tarnish the character whatsoever...forgive me I am not trying to be traditional...but what U see in the backraw of an AC is LUST.I showed him an girl whom I noticed for many years...I told him that woman overthere who looks like a saint, actually f***ed with guys in the backseat. See ...I remember only the girl not the guys she used to be with. When U go to a Bat's wedding U have to behave like a Bat. Therefore in our culture "the character of a woman" still prevails...she may be with her husband or with the fiance..but still the people will look at in a awkward way. Suppose that a person sees my husband kisses me in the bus and since the world is too small it is sure that person will see me again, that day he/she would point at me and say the same thing that I told to my husband.

If you are really loving your partner...please dont kill her self dignity. Let not others say any bad of her, instead let others respect her.
So, when you are with your lady...please try to burry your wilderness and be a gentlemen.

deffa
05-25-2006, 10:25 PM
wel wat i c is the back seat is not love in most cases.its sex.....ppl jus wanna make out...dats wat i c..

Lich
05-25-2006, 10:28 PM
wow....

i think u are righte... but still i dont think u finish the story.. coz i think there are more to come is it...

and i think u are rite.. but in the guy side.. i think he also like to kiss you so... give him a chance...

he is also a guy who like to kiss his girl... ya i agree that u said to him when u guys can do it in ur place.. but......... who knows...

but i agree to u Teescha..

in the back seat .. that is not LOVe.. its SEX.. they are not making love .. they want to have kiss and rubbing and stuff....

what do u think about this guys..

deffa
05-25-2006, 10:30 PM
y aman lich u are correct..why da hell do u need da back seat to make love..its just sex

teescha
05-25-2006, 10:45 PM
wow....

i think u are righte... but still i dont think u finish the story.. coz i think there are more to come is it...

and i think u are rite.. but in the guy side.. i think he also like to kiss you so... give him a chance...

he is also a guy who like to kiss his girl... ya i agree that u said to him when u guys can do it in ur place.. but......... who knows...

but i agree to u Teescha..

in the back seat .. that is not LOVe.. its SEX.. they are not making love .. they want to have kiss and rubbing and stuff....

what do u think about this guys..


Thats why I am saying both sexes esp. guys have to be very... very careful in these matters. Giving a chance to the man U love to kiss & touch U is natural....but should it be done publicly??? infront of all the people & children??? excuse me...................we are still in Sri Lanka...not in WW.

azaamDAsquad
05-25-2006, 10:53 PM
WHEN SINGLE BECUMZ DOUBLE IT MAKE TROUBLE...thatz a sayin by sum person...
but wat im sayin "when single bcumz doublez it tries to make TRIPLE"

hehe

snowgirl
05-25-2006, 10:56 PM
A hurray for teescha :D ... ya hv a respect for ur girl should be more than the temptation of kissin her ..specially in public..cuz da world is too small :yes:

Lich
05-25-2006, 11:10 PM
hari hari....

we said that is wrong.. but dont try to seduce all the Guys.. k .. like LICH is a good guy.. as you all know ;) ;) ;)

isn't it true Teescha :yes: ?

azaamDAsquad
05-25-2006, 11:17 PM
A hurray for teescha :D ... ya hv a respect for ur girl should be more than the temptation of kissin her ..specially in public..cuz da world is too small :yes:

girlz have more "aathal" than guyz.. girlz heat up d guyz feelingz sum how.. and take a FULL AATHAL... then itz our mistake...

btw lyk lich said sum ppl are gud lyk me;)

Lich
05-25-2006, 11:18 PM
hey then what about LICH..

he is also good....

snowgirl
05-25-2006, 11:50 PM
girlz have more "aathal" than guyz.. girlz heat up d guyz feelingz sum how.. and take a FULL AATHAL... then itz our mistake...

btw lyk lich said sum ppl are gud lyk me;)
speakin frm da xperience azaam? ;)

Lich
05-26-2006, 12:06 AM
owata tamai illan mamite gagannawa kiyanne...

he he he.. absolutely from EXPIRENCE

HishamZz
05-26-2006, 12:16 AM
ammmata udu azaam... form wela neh? lolz.. wel.. teescha z got her stuf rite lmao.. it aint rite doin wutever dose ppl do in da backseat.. itz common practice though.. lmao.. da prob is most guyz see dis happenin n thus want 2 imitiate n put themselvez wit their galz in dat situation.. datz wut causes dis prob.. but hel.. da public aint gonna b pleased nywayz.. n itz jst pure foolish.. it aint love... its just lust as u said.. lmao..

Zz

snowgirl
05-26-2006, 12:27 AM
paw azaaam :D :D

azaamDAsquad
05-26-2006, 08:33 AM
:yes: paw azaaam :D :D

komatath mama mey wagey charter waeda karannae :yes: :yes:

i said the fact !!!!

BUA
05-26-2006, 10:22 AM
.... (and a lot more "Bana")...

itz totaly unfair to say "Bana" for diz kinda blody shiits. please kindly avoid using diz kinda words.:yes:

systemoad
05-26-2006, 10:39 AM
Buo, she just wanted to say bs and instead used Bana I guess..take it easy yaar..we always use it nahh

and btw I think it excites some peepz when there's an audience..it turns them on when it's adventurous.it's not like having sex at home..a whole new experience.
and of course I agree wid ya..this shouldn't happen in public places..I mean don't u feel somewhat guilty when u kiss someone in the public?

GTRZ
05-26-2006, 12:23 PM
haha according to srilankan law it’s illegal to behave like that in public, you two can be in police if some1 report it. Anyway do it if you want it, but make sure no one will notice... ;)

teescha
05-26-2006, 06:28 PM
hari hari....

we said that is wrong.. but dont try to seduce all the Guys.. k .. like LICH is a good guy.. as you all know ;) ;) ;)

isn't it true Teescha :yes: ?


Look who's speaking (LOL)

teescha
05-26-2006, 06:34 PM
itz totaly unfair to say "Bana" for diz kinda blody shiits. please kindly avoid using diz kinda words.:yes:



Dear....

Either U have not read the whole story or may be U dont understand what I am trying to say...

The word "Bana" was not used against any religion whatsoever....its a common saying in LK...the idea would be "Preaching". Let me also wind up with U saying "Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience"

snowgirl
05-26-2006, 09:14 PM
Dear....

Either U have not read the whole story or may be U dont understand what I am trying to say...

The word "Bana" was not used against any religion whatsoever....its a common saying in LK...the idea would be "Preaching". Let me also wind up with U saying "Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience"

OUCH!!! teescha akki ;)

nEoN_wHitE
05-27-2006, 07:58 PM
ya teecha is is correct in every way.... it is not real love.... and if u wanna kiss and touch always there are sooo many places you can go and do these kinda things... but ya anyone can say that they can't do these things in home coz their parents are there and stuff.. but still y dont u wanna do it in bus or a public place???

but in the other hand something like dis also can be happen.... sometimes if they got a special feeling or if he/she feels like i love you soo much and they kiss..... these kinda things can happen, but copule sitting in a back seat of a bus means obviously sex.... and what systemoad say is also true.. sometimes they must be bord doing it the same way @ home... so they came to do it in a bus...... watever happens and how honest that guys is, he can't stay wihout kissing & touching his GF :yes:

Lich
05-27-2006, 08:30 PM
ya.....

i agree for taht... but.. we have to think, about hte guy too.. some people like different places to do stuff. .

like some people love to make love in Beach.. or like with Candle lights.. same as that some are like to have it in the bus.. so in my opinion is .. what ever do is its wrong.. coz it is Public and they are showing to other ppl.. and its not good...

so think again to do it...

nEoN_wHitE
05-27-2006, 09:19 PM
or like with Candle lights..


umm yaaaaaa candle light ela.. never have exprianced but look forward to.... hehehe ;):D

snowgirl
05-27-2006, 09:32 PM
umm yaaaaaa candle light ela.. never have exprianced but look forward to.... hehehe ;):D
good luk ;) ;)

nEoN_wHitE
05-27-2006, 09:40 PM
good luk ;) ;)
umm seems like u have exp neda snow ;):D hehehehe

snowgirl
05-27-2006, 09:48 PM
umm seems like u have exp neda snow ;):D hehehehe
ayiioooo ne ne..matath gd luk too :D :D ;)

teescha
05-27-2006, 11:31 PM
wow..................
Lich seems to have experience............:)

Lich
05-28-2006, 10:24 AM
no i dont have Experience..

but my first making love have to be in Candle light and in the Bath Tub... cant explain more...

danno danithi

Nodanno Pasuwa danagathi..

nEoN_wHitE
05-28-2006, 12:51 PM
no i dont have Experience..

but my first making love have to be in Candle light and in the Bath Tub... cant explain more...

danno danithi

Nodanno Pasuwa danagathi..
nodanno pasuwa dana gane oya kiyanawada???? :oo:

GTRZ
05-28-2006, 01:58 PM
Nodanno asa danaganithi...
So ask him :lol:

teescha
05-28-2006, 10:52 PM
no i dont have Experience..

but my first making love have to be in Candle light and in the Bath Tub... cant explain more...

danno danithi

Nodanno Pasuwa danagathi..


Ioooooooooooo!!!
Kewa!! kewa!! Lich's Honey moon eka!!! (UPARIMA LOL). Paw Lich's wife

GTRZ
05-28-2006, 11:19 PM
Oyage Honey moon eka kana deyak da? :lol:

nEoN_wHitE
05-29-2006, 01:11 AM
Ioooooooooooo!!!
Kewa!! kewa!! mage Honey moon eka!!! (UPARIMA LOL)
dan ithin oyage honey moon eka gana hamoma danawa ;):D:D:D hehehe lmao :lol:

shafi
05-29-2006, 07:04 AM
intrsting topic..;)
yea agree whole hearteldly vit evry1:yes:

quote azaam "girlz have more "aathal" than guyz.. girlz heat up d guyz feelingz sum how.. and take a FULL AATHAL... then itz our mistake..." unquote

roflmao :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

quite true.. but not all grls r lithat,, u hav so many guudy 1s ot dere,, jus dat u gotta chose the rite1,, strike the bulleye in other wrds,,

kollata sure akata similara incident akak wela athi..!!
paw wade.. calm down macho

teescha
05-29-2006, 08:54 AM
dan ithin oyage honey moon eka gana hamoma danawa ;):D:D:D hehehe lmao :lol:


iOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

teescha
05-29-2006, 08:59 AM
dan ithin oyage honey moon eka gana hamoma danawa ;):D:D:D hehehe lmao :lol:



OYA MADA! MADA!!!
NEON IS VERY FLUENT IN THROWING OTHERS MUD

teescha
05-29-2006, 09:02 AM
Oyage Honey moon eka kana deyak da? :lol:

Excuseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee me??
what are U talking about......my honey moon????------lol

teescha
05-29-2006, 09:05 AM
dan ithin oyage honey moon eka gana hamoma danawa ;):D:D:D hehehe lmao :lol:







Knock..knock...knock... ....hello......is there a brain in Neon???wheres the brain????a...........what ?? left?
cos neon is................................................ .....O really?? rightly served.
UPARIMA LOL!!! READ B4 WRITE

sandi
05-29-2006, 11:31 AM
ha ha now thts just too damn funny! but i totally wasnt aware tht ppl actually have sex in the bkseats!! i mean yea sure ive seen them making out n stuff, but sex? how on earth can they manage that???

nEoN_wHitE
05-29-2006, 12:13 PM
iOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
mokada IOOOOO gane?? duka thamai ithin apitath,.,... but what 2 u ane.... oyata sorry.com thamai....... :lol:

nEoN_wHitE
05-29-2006, 12:14 PM
OYA MADA! MADA!!!
NEON IS VERY FLUENT IN THROWING OTHERS MUD
mada thiya monawa unath ithin oyane illagena kawe... dan ithin ekata karana deyak na... if u ask now eat :lol: lmao :lol:

nEoN_wHitE
05-29-2006, 12:17 PM
Excuseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee me??
what are U talking about......my honey moon????------lol
mokada ara kalin msn eka edit karala pase "mage honey moon eka wenas karala "Lich's honey moon" and "Paw Lich's wife" kiyala danme?? kalin ehema ekaka thibune na ne....
kalin thibune mecharai.....


Ioooooooooooo!!!
Kewa!! kewa!! mage Honey moon eka!!! (UPARIMA LOL)


so it has to be ur honey moon as well ya ;) illagena kawa nam dan ithin karana deyak naha.... :rolleyes:

nEoN_wHitE
05-29-2006, 12:24 PM
Knock..knock...knock... ....hello......is there a brain in Neon???wheres the brain????a...........what ?? left?
cos neon is................................................ .....O really?? rightly served.
UPARIMA LOL!!! READ B4 WRITE
i read every word b4 writing.... dats y i know what was in ur previous post b4 u edit it...


Ioooooooooooo!!!
Kewa!! kewa!! mage Honey moon eka!!! (UPARIMA LOL)


now look whos talking rubbish.... hehehhehehhe :lol::lol: ohoma kindi kanna epa ane.. paw ne ithin oya....
don't change ur word.... if u say something stick to it...... :rolleyes: hehehhe :lol:

GTRZ
05-29-2006, 12:25 PM
Excuseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee me??
what are U talking about......my honey moon????------lol

You have edited the post now, it was like

Ioooooooooooo!!!
Kewa!! kewa!! mage Honey moon eka!!! (UPARIMA LOL)

As lich says oya illagena marmite ga gaththa :lol:

Lich
05-29-2006, 02:03 PM
ela ela lamaine...

paw ban.. oya bite kala.. .

nEoN_wHitE
05-29-2006, 06:26 PM
api bite kale na ne... eya ilagena ne kawe :D:lol:

GTRZ
05-29-2006, 11:10 PM
haha check this word from teescha "UPARIMA LOL"

:lol:

teescha
05-30-2006, 12:00 AM
too much of negative forces here............correction!!! two negative forces present here. Anyway doesnt matter.......................

nEoN_wHitE
05-30-2006, 12:03 AM
not two, one.... and dats you..... :yes:

teescha
05-30-2006, 12:30 AM
OK! i WILL LEAVE THE SITE AND NEVER COME BACK....:yes: BYE

nEoN_wHitE
05-30-2006, 12:31 AM
ane epa paw Lich adai....

teescha
05-30-2006, 01:03 AM
A......WHAT?

chamika123
09-10-2007, 04:53 PM
u have a point