dog123
11-23-2007, 05:57 PM
How do you know if a girl has a crush on you?
http://i78.photobucket.com/albums/j89/joster091886/LeahDonnaDizon830.jpg
Here are suggested clues:
* She flips her hair
* She's always near you
* always laughs at your jokes and finds any excuse to touch you. By touching, she always hits you or something to that effect.
* She will try to talk to you, sit by you, work with you, ect, whenever possible.
* She might smack her her lips a or or rub them together subconsciously
while talking to you.
* She might tend to stare at you from a distance, then depending on the type of girl either, quickly look away, or smile and/or wave at you when you finally see her.
* She will smile and laugh a lot more when around you.
Steps
1. Strike up a small conversation with her when she's with her friends. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future, language. All girls are different so be aware of the signs.
* If she constantly makes attempts to touch your hand, she likes you.
* If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes.
She'll smile and laugh, perhaps nervously, at your comments and jokes.
* If she's confident, she'll match the tone of her voice with yours and she'll smile and laugh at your jokes. She'll act the same way with you as she does around her friends, only friendlier and a little less bubbly.
* If she's flirty, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with just guy friends and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. They might tap your shoulder while talking to you, gently push you or burst out laughing when you tell a joke.
2. Realize that some girls are self-conscious of what they do. This makes them unwilling to be obvious, so don't heavily rely on checking to see if they are staring at you.
3. Smile at her, (natural smile, don't freak her out) if she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away ("What the heck do you want?"), say goodbye to her. She puts on a big smile ("Hi! Are you interested in me?!") she likes you. But if she freaks out, or starts sweating or if she starts to look nervous, ("What the? Does he know I like him? Oh no. Oh Gosh, no. Why did I tell my friend!?!") she REALLY likes you.
4. She seems to be dreaming or very far away when you talk to her
5. Make friends with her close friends (the ones with the big mouths).
6. See if she flirts with you uncontrollably or avoids you altogether. She'll usually all of a sudden get louder or quieter when you come around.
7. Notice how she looks at you--she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately.
8. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" If she denies it more than 3 times with a smile or while laughing nervously, then you can assume she likes you.
9. Watch for her being extremely mean or extremely nice to you for no reason.
10. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears you or your name.
11. Check if she seems mad or will say comments like "just kiss her already" when you flirt with other girls.
12. Notice if she touches you more often (or finds any excuse to do so).
13. Be aware if she seems overeager to fix you up with someone.
14. If she stalks you, she likes you.
15. If she says,"I know someone who likes you!",then it's definitely her that likes you.
16. Get to know her, tell her you like her and just see what she says. But if she does not like you, NO means NO! Unless she tries to be your friend, don't put on the whole "just-friends" act. You might as well forget her.
17. If she asks you something like "Have you been asked out to the dance yet?", she's implying that she wants you to ask her out to the dance.
18. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden.
19. You'll know if she likes you if she stares at you constantly and will always laugh at your jokes
20. If she turns BRIGHT red when you're near her, or when you talk to her. She OBVIOULSY! likes you.
21. Last, but not least, if she says, "I like you," then you know she likes you.
Tips
* If you're in a room with people, most of the time she will keep an eye on you when you're not looking. Try to keep watch for meeting eyes with her a lot. Even maybe once, it could be a sign that she likes you.
* If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: who would you rather date?, Who do you like better?, who is the hottest?, and such. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and there trying to search for clues to see how you react to the questions.
* Wear cologne. Girls LOVE guys that smells GOOD! But not overpowering. Also, unless you know she likes the smell, it's a good idea NOT to wear stuff like AXE or TAG. Make sure she likes the smell before you wear it around her.
* If she likes to wrestle, and she starts it, go along and wrestle, she may enjoy it.(P.S. NEVER EVER start it, she could get offended.)
* If she really, really likes you, she'll tell you herself, or not: it depends what kind of a person she is.
* It helps if you're the sweet kind of guy who lets girls hug him. You'll more likely hear about a girl liking you.
* If you do hear a girl likes you, be nice to her. Don't avoid her and don't seem disgusted because no girls will like you after that.
* Be yourself, but in a nice way.
* Honesty and secrecy are big parts of girl friendships so don't rely on her friends to tell you if she likes you or not. However, if you know one of her friends is a complete gossip, it could be worth it to drop some hints in front of her.
* Compliment her. Girls love when guys compliment them. Remember, don't shower them with compliments, although they may like it, they may see you as having ulterior motives.
* Friendliness pays off. If she's having trouble with something, help her. If she's not doing so well in a class, offer to help her study.
* Defend her interests. If she's playing a sport and one of your friends makes a crack about it, stick up for the sport (she'll see it as you sticking up for her).
* Remember what you learn about her because you can use these bits of information for topics in the future. For example, if she tells you that she has a dog, you can ask her about the dog next time you meet. She will be impressed that you remembered.
* She might use your friends as a way to get closer to you. Girls are naturally instinctive and pick up on the smallest things.
* If she looks over at you a lot this might be a really good sign that she likes you or sometimes it could be that she's trying to see if you are looking at her. But if you see that she's looking at you keep looking at her and this is a plus.
* Avoid, however, agreeing with everything they say as if you are their 'yes-man.' This makes them think less of you. You should be able to challenge them (in a friendly way). For some more intellectual girls, a friendly debate over trivial matters is a big turn-on. Girls look for partners, not suckups.
* Most girls don't want their friends to tell a guy she likes him. So don't blame her if her friends say something about it.
* Just ask her out! Some girls are too shy to do it, or if they've been turned down a lot, are afraid of rejection and won't ask. If you like her, ask her. If she says no, then offer to stay friends. If she says yes, then you're in the clear!
* Different girls do different things. Some girls are very confusing and flirt with you when they don't like you. Some girls don't make the first move, so you have to.
* If the girl looks at you a lot but when you look at her she turns away, but theres still that little moment of smiling towards each other, thats a pretty big sign that she likes you.
* Sometimes, a girl will be like one of the guys. If so, most likely, most of her just plain friends will be guys. If so, don't be jealous if you see her talking to them. Most likely, she is talking to them so she can feel comfortable around any guy she likes (even you).
* When you look at her and she looks at you for a few seconds, some girls will say "What? or What are you looking at?" in a flirty tone. This could be a sign she likes you.
* At your local hang out: Hang out often, Talk to everybody, and make friends with other regulars, Friends of friends is the best way to meet.
* Myspace is a great tool for casually building a relationship with her. Leave a comment on her page about something the two of you did together that day. But beware: smiley faces can be interpreted as cute or a little too fem for a guy!
Warnings
* Dont tell your friends that you like the girl! This can make awkward moments, or your friends might hint that you like her to her when your not ready.*Vindictive as they come, girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone- she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard.
* If they are smart, and like smart guys, then you probably don't want to have one of your friends ask them out.
* Girls detest when guys are obnoxious, rude, and show-offy. Although they might show-off a bit (giggling, laughing, hair flipping, etc.), they hate conceited guys. Don't be arrogant.
* Don't hassle girls. They only have so much patience with "Do-You-Like-Me hassling" and can only take so much. Give them space and then slowly move in.
* DO NOT keep asking them over and over again if they like you, it gets really annoying and if she said no once, she might mean no, but if you do decide to ask her how she feels about you, then tell her how you feel first.
* Don't ignore her if she looks your way. ESPECIALLY in a crowded room, if she seems to glance your way more than 4-5 times in a crowded room, she has put the bull's-eye on you. You are the ten point Buck. All you have to do is say Hi.
* Don't rush things -- if she likes you, she'll come around.
* NO MEANS NO!
* Dont stalk her/follow her around. Try to choose the right time to talk to her.
* Shower everyday!!! being smelly is a huge turn off
* Don't be a slob. That is a major turn-off.
* When you joke around just remember to let them know that you are just joking. You can even make a small comment about it afterwards. ex: (pretty? psh. pretty ugly. just joking! actually you're better than most girls I've met.)
* Don't pretend to like another girl to make her jealous, it's incredibly annoying and will let her down.
* Absoulty DO NOT MAKE FUN OF HER FRIENDS SIBLINGS AND PARENTS
* It's ok to tell a joke once in a while but don't over do it
Things You'll Need
* Her friends
* Her Trust
* your friends to help with jokes and any thing else
* a good sense of humor
* THE RIGHT REASONS
* Information about her (stuff you have in common)
:rofl: :yes: :cool: :P
http://i78.photobucket.com/albums/j89/joster091886/LeahDonnaDizon830.jpg
Here are suggested clues:
* She flips her hair
* She's always near you
* always laughs at your jokes and finds any excuse to touch you. By touching, she always hits you or something to that effect.
* She will try to talk to you, sit by you, work with you, ect, whenever possible.
* She might smack her her lips a or or rub them together subconsciously
while talking to you.
* She might tend to stare at you from a distance, then depending on the type of girl either, quickly look away, or smile and/or wave at you when you finally see her.
* She will smile and laugh a lot more when around you.
Steps
1. Strike up a small conversation with her when she's with her friends. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future, language. All girls are different so be aware of the signs.
* If she constantly makes attempts to touch your hand, she likes you.
* If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes.
She'll smile and laugh, perhaps nervously, at your comments and jokes.
* If she's confident, she'll match the tone of her voice with yours and she'll smile and laugh at your jokes. She'll act the same way with you as she does around her friends, only friendlier and a little less bubbly.
* If she's flirty, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with just guy friends and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. They might tap your shoulder while talking to you, gently push you or burst out laughing when you tell a joke.
2. Realize that some girls are self-conscious of what they do. This makes them unwilling to be obvious, so don't heavily rely on checking to see if they are staring at you.
3. Smile at her, (natural smile, don't freak her out) if she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away ("What the heck do you want?"), say goodbye to her. She puts on a big smile ("Hi! Are you interested in me?!") she likes you. But if she freaks out, or starts sweating or if she starts to look nervous, ("What the? Does he know I like him? Oh no. Oh Gosh, no. Why did I tell my friend!?!") she REALLY likes you.
4. She seems to be dreaming or very far away when you talk to her
5. Make friends with her close friends (the ones with the big mouths).
6. See if she flirts with you uncontrollably or avoids you altogether. She'll usually all of a sudden get louder or quieter when you come around.
7. Notice how she looks at you--she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately.
8. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" If she denies it more than 3 times with a smile or while laughing nervously, then you can assume she likes you.
9. Watch for her being extremely mean or extremely nice to you for no reason.
10. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears you or your name.
11. Check if she seems mad or will say comments like "just kiss her already" when you flirt with other girls.
12. Notice if she touches you more often (or finds any excuse to do so).
13. Be aware if she seems overeager to fix you up with someone.
14. If she stalks you, she likes you.
15. If she says,"I know someone who likes you!",then it's definitely her that likes you.
16. Get to know her, tell her you like her and just see what she says. But if she does not like you, NO means NO! Unless she tries to be your friend, don't put on the whole "just-friends" act. You might as well forget her.
17. If she asks you something like "Have you been asked out to the dance yet?", she's implying that she wants you to ask her out to the dance.
18. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden.
19. You'll know if she likes you if she stares at you constantly and will always laugh at your jokes
20. If she turns BRIGHT red when you're near her, or when you talk to her. She OBVIOULSY! likes you.
21. Last, but not least, if she says, "I like you," then you know she likes you.
Tips
* If you're in a room with people, most of the time she will keep an eye on you when you're not looking. Try to keep watch for meeting eyes with her a lot. Even maybe once, it could be a sign that she likes you.
* If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: who would you rather date?, Who do you like better?, who is the hottest?, and such. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and there trying to search for clues to see how you react to the questions.
* Wear cologne. Girls LOVE guys that smells GOOD! But not overpowering. Also, unless you know she likes the smell, it's a good idea NOT to wear stuff like AXE or TAG. Make sure she likes the smell before you wear it around her.
* If she likes to wrestle, and she starts it, go along and wrestle, she may enjoy it.(P.S. NEVER EVER start it, she could get offended.)
* If she really, really likes you, she'll tell you herself, or not: it depends what kind of a person she is.
* It helps if you're the sweet kind of guy who lets girls hug him. You'll more likely hear about a girl liking you.
* If you do hear a girl likes you, be nice to her. Don't avoid her and don't seem disgusted because no girls will like you after that.
* Be yourself, but in a nice way.
* Honesty and secrecy are big parts of girl friendships so don't rely on her friends to tell you if she likes you or not. However, if you know one of her friends is a complete gossip, it could be worth it to drop some hints in front of her.
* Compliment her. Girls love when guys compliment them. Remember, don't shower them with compliments, although they may like it, they may see you as having ulterior motives.
* Friendliness pays off. If she's having trouble with something, help her. If she's not doing so well in a class, offer to help her study.
* Defend her interests. If she's playing a sport and one of your friends makes a crack about it, stick up for the sport (she'll see it as you sticking up for her).
* Remember what you learn about her because you can use these bits of information for topics in the future. For example, if she tells you that she has a dog, you can ask her about the dog next time you meet. She will be impressed that you remembered.
* She might use your friends as a way to get closer to you. Girls are naturally instinctive and pick up on the smallest things.
* If she looks over at you a lot this might be a really good sign that she likes you or sometimes it could be that she's trying to see if you are looking at her. But if you see that she's looking at you keep looking at her and this is a plus.
* Avoid, however, agreeing with everything they say as if you are their 'yes-man.' This makes them think less of you. You should be able to challenge them (in a friendly way). For some more intellectual girls, a friendly debate over trivial matters is a big turn-on. Girls look for partners, not suckups.
* Most girls don't want their friends to tell a guy she likes him. So don't blame her if her friends say something about it.
* Just ask her out! Some girls are too shy to do it, or if they've been turned down a lot, are afraid of rejection and won't ask. If you like her, ask her. If she says no, then offer to stay friends. If she says yes, then you're in the clear!
* Different girls do different things. Some girls are very confusing and flirt with you when they don't like you. Some girls don't make the first move, so you have to.
* If the girl looks at you a lot but when you look at her she turns away, but theres still that little moment of smiling towards each other, thats a pretty big sign that she likes you.
* Sometimes, a girl will be like one of the guys. If so, most likely, most of her just plain friends will be guys. If so, don't be jealous if you see her talking to them. Most likely, she is talking to them so she can feel comfortable around any guy she likes (even you).
* When you look at her and she looks at you for a few seconds, some girls will say "What? or What are you looking at?" in a flirty tone. This could be a sign she likes you.
* At your local hang out: Hang out often, Talk to everybody, and make friends with other regulars, Friends of friends is the best way to meet.
* Myspace is a great tool for casually building a relationship with her. Leave a comment on her page about something the two of you did together that day. But beware: smiley faces can be interpreted as cute or a little too fem for a guy!
Warnings
* Dont tell your friends that you like the girl! This can make awkward moments, or your friends might hint that you like her to her when your not ready.*Vindictive as they come, girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone- she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard.
* If they are smart, and like smart guys, then you probably don't want to have one of your friends ask them out.
* Girls detest when guys are obnoxious, rude, and show-offy. Although they might show-off a bit (giggling, laughing, hair flipping, etc.), they hate conceited guys. Don't be arrogant.
* Don't hassle girls. They only have so much patience with "Do-You-Like-Me hassling" and can only take so much. Give them space and then slowly move in.
* DO NOT keep asking them over and over again if they like you, it gets really annoying and if she said no once, she might mean no, but if you do decide to ask her how she feels about you, then tell her how you feel first.
* Don't ignore her if she looks your way. ESPECIALLY in a crowded room, if she seems to glance your way more than 4-5 times in a crowded room, she has put the bull's-eye on you. You are the ten point Buck. All you have to do is say Hi.
* Don't rush things -- if she likes you, she'll come around.
* NO MEANS NO!
* Dont stalk her/follow her around. Try to choose the right time to talk to her.
* Shower everyday!!! being smelly is a huge turn off
* Don't be a slob. That is a major turn-off.
* When you joke around just remember to let them know that you are just joking. You can even make a small comment about it afterwards. ex: (pretty? psh. pretty ugly. just joking! actually you're better than most girls I've met.)
* Don't pretend to like another girl to make her jealous, it's incredibly annoying and will let her down.
* Absoulty DO NOT MAKE FUN OF HER FRIENDS SIBLINGS AND PARENTS
* It's ok to tell a joke once in a while but don't over do it
Things You'll Need
* Her friends
* Her Trust
* your friends to help with jokes and any thing else
* a good sense of humor
* THE RIGHT REASONS
* Information about her (stuff you have in common)
:rofl: :yes: :cool: :P