Only 4 unmarried girls

[Cracker]

http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?t=62443

[asitha_rules]

LOL. NICE POLL. HAHAHA.
Wat bout da guyz bro? oh come on............

[vishankapraveen]

Are you a virgin ? pls comment here.
tama marry karala naa but im a boy naa man tama chootu boy :P :P :P

[piyumi01]

Yes I am :yes:

[sachiDzz]

ma tama podi kollek......

[x-pert]

Cracker meakata kattiya answer karana ekak naha bung.. daanna anonymous poll ekak.

[psyche]

Are you a virgin ? pls comment here.

I think a better question would be......Whether being a non-virgin these days is bad before getting married?? .......:P :P

[shiwankaswe]

I AM Not Think ABout That

[Nic]

Cracker meakata kattiya answer karana ekak naha bung.. daanna anonymous poll ekak.
:yes: :yes:

[nagaya]

machan virgin kiyanne mokakda?

[tharinda07]

Virginity
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In Roman times, the Vestal Virgins remained celibate for 30 years on penalty of death
In Roman times, the Vestal Virgins remained celibate for 30 years on penalty of death

Virginity is the state of being a virgin. Virgin historically signified a young woman characterized by absence of sexual experience (see Etymology). Currently, virgin need not refer to age or biological sex. Hence, more mature women and men can be virgins (The Virgin Queen). Potential initiates into many fields can be colloquially termed virgins.

The word is emotive, for some, because it distinguishes between unmarried women who have had no sexual partners, and those who have (see Feminist criticism). The idea that a virgin has an emotional "blank slate", without complications for her potential intimate emotional life with men,[1] leads to the abstraction of unadulterated purity, which can be applied even to non-human referents. Unalloyed metal is sometimes described as virgin. Some cocktails can be described as virgin, when lacking the alcoholic admixture. Similarly, olive oil may be called virgin or extra-virgin, if it comes from the first pressing and contains no refined oil.

The last instance also incorporates an additional association of virginity — the notability of its loss. More properly, the association is with the significance of the addition of a new status, rather than a loss. Hence this association is typically found in references to the first instance of a potentially extended series of like events. Just as virgin olive oil is from the first pressing, so a maiden or virgin speech is an incumbent's first address.

[tharinda07]

Technical virginity

Some historians and anthropologists note that many societies that place a high value on virginity before marriage, such as the United States before the sexual revolution, actually have a large amount of premarital sexual activity that does not involve vaginal penetration: for example, oral sex, anal sex and mutual masturbation. This is considered by some people "technical" virginity, as vaginal intercourse has not occurred but the participants are sexually active.

The notion of technical virginity is widely derided by many social commentators. In fact, the traditional theological definition of "virginity" in the Catholic tradition is the absence of any deliberately felt sexual pleasure.

Assertions of technical virginity, often made for religious reasons, may be regarded by some as grossly hypocritical and self-delusional. The well known advice columnist Dan Savage frequently ridicules such assertions when made by correspondents to his column and podcast Savage Love. His view, shared by many, is that "having sex", explicitly includes sexual activity other than vaginal intercourse, including oral or anal sex, or mutual masturbation. It therefore follows that once an individual has engaged in such sexual activity, they are no longer a virgin in any meaningful sense. Still, many people would admit a somewhat important difference between those acts that merely give sexual pleasure (i.e, performing oral sex, a handjob, etc) and those that receive it (penetrating, being penetrated, or otherwise brought to orgasm). Though there might be the notion that the recipient of a handjob has lost their virginity, few people would consider the hand that performed it to be therefore deflowered.

There are however anthropological reasons to the view that vaginal penetration, especially on the part of the woman, as especially indicative of a change in status, a threshold irrevocably crossed, the most incontrovertible "loss of virginity". And that is because a woman who has been vaginally penetrated is one who may have potentially conceived. From an evolutionary standpoint, men would prefer "virgin" mates under this definition to be sure that the woman was not carrying another man's child which the new husband would be "tricked" into caring for as his own. Neither the fact that no conception took place, nor the use of contraception, nor the passing of more than a full gestation period can remove this sociological stigma in many societies, as it is biologically, not rationally, based.

[edit] Loss of virginity

The act of losing one's virginity, that is, of a first sexual experience, is commonly considered within Western culture to be an important life event and a rite of passage. It is highlighted by many mainstream Western movies (particularly films aimed at a teenaged audience). The loss of virginity can be viewed as a milestone to be proud of or as a failure to be ashamed of, depending on cultural perceptions. Historically, these perceptions were heavily influenced by perceived gender roles, such that for a male the association was more often with pride and for a female the association was more often with shame.

Among human females, the hymen is a membrane, part of the vulva, which partially occludes the entrance to the vagina which stretches, or is sometimes torn when the woman first engages in sexual intercourse. The human hymen can vary widely in thickness, shape, and flexibility. The presence of an intact membrane has, by some throughout history, been seen as physical evidence of virginity in the broader technical sense, though the hymen can be easily broken by other means.

In the majority of women, the hymen is sufficiently vestigial as to pose no obstruction to the entryway of the vagina. The presence of a broken hymen may therefore indicate that the vagina has been penetrated but also that it was broken via physical activity or the use of a tampon or dildo. Many women possess such thin, fragile hymens, easily stretched and already perforated at birth, that the hymen can be broken, or merely disappear, in childhood, without the woman's even being aware of it.

In contrast to the common cases of an absent or partial hymen, in rare cases a woman may possess an imperforate hymen, such as prevents the release of menstrual discharge. A surgical procedure known as hymenotomy, which creates an opening in the hymen, is sometimes required to avert deleterious health effects. The playwright Ben Jonson claimed that Queen Elizabeth I of England, the Virgin Queen, had a "membranum" that made her "incapable of Man", and that a friend of hers, a "chirurgeon", had offered to remedy the problem with his scalpel and that Elizabeth had demurred.

The presence of a hymen is a possible indication, but no guarantee, of virginity, given that it is speculated that some degree of sexual activity may occur without rupturing the hymen and because there may exist varying definitions as to the type and extent of sexual activity that is required to terminate the state of "virginity". This is further complicated by the availability of hymenorrhaphy surgical procedures to repair or replace the hymen. (This procedure, while rare in the U.S., is more common in countries where virginity is greatly prized, as in the Middle East. It is also more common among the wealthier classes than the poorer classes: this is a classical case of elective surgery performed with no medical benefit.)

In some cultures, women are not regarded as virgins after a sexual assault, but some people disavow this notion. There are also those who take this "spiritual" concept of virginity to its maximum, considering "born again virgins" to be virgins, regardless of their past sexual conduct. However, the word "chastity" is often used in this context rather than "virginity". The Catholic Church used to[citation needed] prefer nuns to be virgins—[citation needed]certainly young ones must be—[citation needed]but it does allow a few widows to take the veil, on the assumption that their sex lives—and family loyalties that might conflict with their vocations—expired with their husbands.[citation needed]

In males, there is no physically visible indicator of virginity. The sexual partner during the loss of virginity is sometimes colloquially said to "take" the virginity of the virgin partner. In some places, this colloquialism is only used when the partner is not a virgin, but in other places, the virginity of the partner does not matter. The archaic term "deflower" is sometimes used in modern times to also describe the act of the virgin's partner, and the clinical term "defloration" is another way to describe the event.

One slang term used for virginity is "cherry" (often, this term refers to the hymen, but can refer to virginity in males or females) and for a virgin, deflowering is said to "pop their cherry," a reference to destruction of the hymen during first intercourse. "Popping the cherry" can also refer to a person's first experience of receptive anal sex, and for this reason the anal sphincter can be referred to as the "cherry".

A curious term often seen in English translations of the works of the Marquis de Sade is to depucelate. This word is apparently a literal translation of dépuceler, a French verb derived from pucelle (n.f.), which means "virgin". Joan of Arc was commonly called "la Pucelle" by her admirers.

In some countries until the late 20th century, if a man did not marry a woman whose virginity he had taken, the woman was allowed to sue the man for money, in some languages named "wreath money".[6] In the U.S., it is still possible to sue for breach of promise, but the issue is not generally virginity.

[wjlfernando]

GALS LA BAYAI WAGE NATHNAM ...............?

[Aragorn]

ela thread eka...!!
put a poll banz..!!

[milindasenarath]

machan virgin kiyanne mokakda?
kanyawak kiyana eka
kanyawak kiyanne mokadda kiyala ahanna epa:lol:

[manappu]

Yes I am :yes:


good oya witaraii replay kale....:yes: :yes: ;)

[manappu]

tama marry karala naa but im a boy naa man tama chootu boy :P :P :P


ow ow..uba chuti ekane...mewa gana danaganna tawa kal tiyenawa...hahaha:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[nagaya]

kanyawak kiyana eka
kanyawak kiyanne mokadda kiyala ahanna epa:lol:

eka mama dannawa,kanyawak kiyanne kaatada?

[manappu]

eka mama dannawa,kanyawak kiyanne mokekda?



eehhhsshhheekkkk..."mokekda"kiyala ahala ninda karanna epa koluwo mona unath!!!!wihilu kalata kamak nehe...namuth piliwelata...;) ;)

[nagaya]

eehhhsshhheekkkk..."mokekda"kiyala ahala ninda karanna epa koluwo mona unath!!!!wihilu kalata kamak nehe...namuth piliwelata...;) ;)

anne godak sorry

[anarkalee]

hmmmmm

[Dan01]

tama marry karala naa but im a boy naa man tama chootu boy :P :P :P


Umba kohendha Chuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuti.....
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[manappu]

anne godak sorry


oki oki...bye..

[Kalindugayan]

niyama poll eka

[chamika123]

tama marry karala naa