neroshan
11-12-2006, 12:17 PM
Could a man be a friend to his wife? Could he be honest and reasonable? Could we find a new figure of a marriage life? Could they build a close friendship? There is no doubt that most couples agree upon the necessity of having a friendly relationship between them, but the possibility of achieving it, is the problem which is exposed to many circumstances and conditions that prevail marriages relationship. No doubt that friendship between couples is very important since it is a condition they live together, and a wife can share her husband her thoughts, job and ambitions, then he encourages and supports her, while she responds to live spiritually with him due to his work conditions and problems with his fellows.
A relationship between couples has many proprieties, but if we are asked to choose only one criterion that nourishes their life with happiness and exciting over and over years, it couldn’t be anything but to deal each others friendly. More often we see honest couples, but when they fall in a trouble, they stick into it and then they are no longer lovely couples. On the other hand, we see a wonderful couple, loyal to each others share the same hopes and interests however their life is full of stress. But when couples are friends, so their issues will roll naturally, because friendship enforces everybody to support his friend, be patient and sympathetic, and overlook others mistakes. Couples friendship also facilitates the communication process, and unlocks the door of exciting, fun and being strict sometimes. A friend should always keep in touch, a friend indeed is a friend in need, and if a couple needs to make all their life full of happiness, they should share all issues, decisions and to set together so a wife can express her feeling to her husband and listen from him, play together, apologize for each others and respect their points of view. In addition, this doesn’t insult masculinity, but it is an original part of manhoods personality.
There are many couples draw a red line between marriages life and friendship, they make their friendly relationship just outdoor, but worse than this is they may hide matters and reveal them to their friends instead, however they haven’t made up their minds that when you exchange friendly talks with your spouse, they would build a bridge of love, relaxation and safety.
It doesn’t mean that a friendship is more important than a marriages relationship. But when spouses are connected by their marriages relationship and backed with friendship, they would build a ship of love that takes them to the beach of happiness and self-ease.
A relationship between couples has many proprieties, but if we are asked to choose only one criterion that nourishes their life with happiness and exciting over and over years, it couldn’t be anything but to deal each others friendly. More often we see honest couples, but when they fall in a trouble, they stick into it and then they are no longer lovely couples. On the other hand, we see a wonderful couple, loyal to each others share the same hopes and interests however their life is full of stress. But when couples are friends, so their issues will roll naturally, because friendship enforces everybody to support his friend, be patient and sympathetic, and overlook others mistakes. Couples friendship also facilitates the communication process, and unlocks the door of exciting, fun and being strict sometimes. A friend should always keep in touch, a friend indeed is a friend in need, and if a couple needs to make all their life full of happiness, they should share all issues, decisions and to set together so a wife can express her feeling to her husband and listen from him, play together, apologize for each others and respect their points of view. In addition, this doesn’t insult masculinity, but it is an original part of manhoods personality.
There are many couples draw a red line between marriages life and friendship, they make their friendly relationship just outdoor, but worse than this is they may hide matters and reveal them to their friends instead, however they haven’t made up their minds that when you exchange friendly talks with your spouse, they would build a bridge of love, relaxation and safety.
It doesn’t mean that a friendship is more important than a marriages relationship. But when spouses are connected by their marriages relationship and backed with friendship, they would build a ship of love that takes them to the beach of happiness and self-ease.