Youre Real Self -
11-12-2006, 12:38 PM
Do you appear to be your real self through your look, your behavior and your talks? People find it difficult to view themselves as others view them however their determination to try to understand themselves helps their development towards becoming what they want to be. Everybody likes to be liked, and this is natural but you have to work for it since it does not come by itself. How to achieve that? Here are some helping remarks:
The relation between your body and your personality
You have acquired your body formation and your abilities through your gene heritage, and you have to maintain this bodily strength by keeping it healthy and in proper weight.
Keep your mind alert
Work in full energy. The worst state of mind is when you empty it from work so that it becomes similar to a fast moving car that is running down a slope without a driver. My advice is to do what is wanted from you efficiently and perfectly.
Control your emotions
Sometimes you might think that emotions are harmful to your character, however, emotions themselves are not harmful, but loss of control on those emotions and loss of direction can put you into trouble. Anger is an internal emotion that is charged with tension and that can reflect on your appearance, thus you ought to control it and release it in another reasonable way away from tension and negative attitudes.
Watch against worry and pessimism
Life is full of disturbances, since God wanted it to combine the 2 odds: vice and virtue, joy and sorrow. Beware pessimism and live your reality without drowning in your imagination. Accept your life as it is and adapt yourself to its circumstances. Roses are joyful, birds are singers and a human being is joyful by nature had it not been for the problems that he faces. A frowning face cannot see the smiles each person views life through his thoughts, his deeds and his incentives. If his work was good, his thoughts were clean and his incentives were apparent, then he will see the world as beautiful as it was created.
Life is an art and it is better for a man to habituate himself on expecting good and fighting despair by all means.