Motivation & Expectation -
11-21-2006, 11:32 PM
Motivation & Expectation
When we go through anything hard or challenging in life we automaticaly search for the understanding and support of our loved ones..
we expect certain answers for our questions..
We want to see specific reactions for our actions..
We make scenarios in our minds..
We expect to get the support that we need all the time..we want applause after every decision..
And i think that if we control our expectations and agree that people too have the right and the freedom to think and apreciate things in thier own special way..
if we manage to deal with that wisely..regardless of our own specifications.. then we will be able to maintain a high self esteem and that will constantly motivate us..and will set our spirits free..
If others offer their support we must apreciate it and take advantage of it..if they did not..we must refer to our inner trust..
we must beleive that allah the generous would give from his kindness to those who ask him..the creator..