ලග්නය සහ ලිංගිකත්වය 18 +
wm iudcfha mj;sk u;hka wkqj fï i|yd úúO mqoa.,hkaf.a ,.ak n,mdk njg u; m,fjhs' wo wms lshkakg hkafka tu ,.akhka ;=,ska mqoa.,hkaf.a ,sx.sl Ôú;h ms<sn| lshfjk lreKq lSmhl=hs'
fuys olajd we;s lrekq Tnf.a flako%fha wfkl=;a .%yhkaf.a msysàï wkqj hï hï fjkialï we;súh yel
fïI ,.akh
Ôjfha wdrïNh ioyd fya;= jq ldu rd. njg wêm;s jkakd jq isl=reg fïI
ckauhdf.a flakao%fha y;ajeks Ndjh ysñùh' rdYs pl%fha y;ajekakg ;=,d rdYsh iïnkaO ùuksid ldfudoa§mk Yla;sh fydÈka mej;sug fya;=ù ;sfí' fïI ckañhdf.a ldu rd. nj m%;s,sx.slhdf.a m%fudaoh yd iemj;a nj kshudldrfhk´fí flakao%fha y;ajekafka isl=re fh§u wkHhka Tn fj; myiqfjka weo .ekSug wjYH n,hls'fï isl=reg l=cmf.a mú;% oDIaá we;sjQ l, fï ;;ajh jvd;a ÈhqKq lrhs'
jDIN ,.akh
n,iïmkak Woafõ. ckl ldfudoa§mk Yla;shla we;s jDIN ckañfhda ;udf.a rE imqj yd foay ú,ih úiska fufyhjkq ,nk ;;ajhla u.ska m%;s,sx.slhka m%n, f,i fkdikaiqka njg muqKqjkafkdah' jDIN ckañka ldu iïm;a ukdfldg ,eîug fya;= jdikd ,o mqoa.,hka fõ' fudyq ,sx.sl lghq;=j,È b;d olaI f,i m%;s,sx.slhd ji. lr.kS'
ñ:qk ,.akh
hqj;sm;s fofokdf.a ixfla;hlska ñ:qk rdYsh y÷kajd ;sîfukau ldu rd. njg by< wdYd we;s wh nj meyeÈ,s fõ' ñ:qk rdYshl Wmka wh ldu rd. núka WÉpia;dkh ,enqfjdah' ld,d risl nj" YDx.dr risl nj fudjqkaf.a iNdjfhda fj;s' fudjqka iajlSh iïfNda. iemh wfmalaId lrkafka §¾>
ld,Sk iqjhla ioyd neúka ;udf.a iyldr;ajh ;shqKq ffp;isl iam¾Yhlska je<o .kq ,nhs'
fudyq úiska ;reK iuh f.jkq ,nkafka iajlSh wNHka;r fõ.hka iuÛ ish fÉ;kdjka
wd,sx.kh lrkq ,eîfuks' fma%u rih fudjqkaf.a uOqr wdydrh fõ'
ñ:qk ckañhd ksrka;r rd.sl núka iukaú; fõ' fudyq tlu rifhka yeuúgu i;=gq fkdfõ' fujekafkla iu. újdy ù isák ;eke;a;d ta ms<sn|j oek.; hq;=h'
lgl ,.akh
lgl ckañfhda iajlSh ldu rd. nj l,d;aul iajrEmhlska Nqla;súÈkafkda fkdfj;s' idudkH f,daldiajdo r;sh flfrys .re lrk fï wh ri ri ujkafkdo fkdfj;s' ;ukaf.a ri f,d,;ajh wkHhka flfrys olajkq ,nkafka b.sfhks' yels yeu wjÈhlu wkHhkag fkdf;afrk whqßka ;ukaf.a woyia lshfõ' iudch yuqfõ fujeks wh isákafka ukd iqpß;jdÈka f,ih' fudjqka fndfydúg woyia iÛjdf.k lghq;= lrkafkda fj;s'
isxy ,.akh
isxy ,.ak ysñhd ldu rd. ðú;h fnfyúkau f.!rjdkaú;h' fldf;l=;a wvqmdvqlï ;snqk;a kSplshdjkag fm,fnkafkda fkdfj;s' iajlSh ldu rd. nj Wodr wkaoñka nqla;s úÈug fudjqka ;=, wfmalaIdj we;' fudyqf.a ldu Ôú;h ksid wfkl=;a fndfyda lreKq wjq,aùug bv we;'
isxy ckañhdf.a flakao%fha isl=re y;ajeks Ndjfha isákï m%sh rEm fidndjla we;slsÍug fukau wka wh ;ud fj; kïjd .ekSug n,hls' fï wh Wiia nqoaêhla yd Wiia iudc miqìula we;a;dy' jdikdjka; l¾hlaIu wfhl= iuÛ újdy Ôú;h .;lSÍug fï whg jdikdj ,efí'
lkHd ,.akh
fuu ,.ak ckañhdf.a iajNdjh kï ldu rd. nj iqpßj;a mßo Èúysñfhka /lSuhs' ldu rd. Ôú;h .ek fï whf.a mj;akd wrmßueiau mqÿu iy.;h' fudjqka iajlSh ldu rd. nj flf,id .;fyd;a th b;d l,d;=rlsks' ;reK úhg md ;nk lkHd ckañfhd ukd jQ ðú; yev.eiaulg Ndckh jkafkdah' n%yiam;s oyfha isáfhakï fuu ckañhdf.a újdy Ôú;h ksidu ÈhqKqjg m;alrjhs'
;=,d ,.akh
;=,d ,.akhg wêm;s isl=reh' tfiau wgjeks ia:dkfhao isl=reg wêm;s úh' fuu ia:dk folu isl=reg wh;aùu ksid ;=,d ckañhdg isl=ref.a n,mefuka fnfyúkau wkqjklï lsÍug bjy,ajk ;;ajhla oelsh yel' ;=,d ckañhdg fyd| ldu Ôú;hla ,eî ;sfí' l=c isl=re y;ajeks ndjfha fhda.h ;=,d ckañhdf.a ldu rd. nj uekúka m%ldY lrhs' fudjqka ldu Ôú;h wks;a yeu wxYhlgu jvd Wiianj i,lhs'
rEmfhka yd ;reKlñka f,<fok fudjqkaf.a foay ú,dIh m%;s ,sx.slhka fkdhsjiqï fok ;;ajhlg m;alrhs' tfy;a fuu fhda.h fikiqre úiska olsk ,oafoa kï fuu fhda.shdf.a ldu Ôú;h ;reK úfha§u ;udf.au wkqjklï ksid wjq,a lr.ekSug bv;sfí'
jDYaÑl ,.akh
ieÛjqkq woyia we;s njla fmkakqï lrhs' ;u yeu wjYH;djhla i|ydu wfkald ji.hg .ekSug W;aidy lrk fudyq wfkld ji.hg .ekSfï Wml%uh f,i ;u Yßr wx. p,kh lsÍu fuu ckañhdf.a úfYaI;ajhhs' fuu ,.akfhka Wmka ldka;djka ;=, fuu ;;ajh fnfyúka oelsh yelsh' ;u wfmalaIdj bgqlr .ekSug miqng fkdjk fuu jDIaÑl ckañfhda ;u wfmalaIdjkag úreoaOjk m%;s,sx.slfhda flfia fyda ;udfj; ji. lr.kq ,nhs' fuu fhd.fha Wmka ia;%ska udhd l%shdjkays w;solaIhska fõ'
Okq ,.akh
fudjqka ldu rd. nj wNS; iajNdjhlska hq;=j nqla;s úÈkafkdah' ieÛjqkq Ñ;a;fõ. fï whg ke;' mú;%j fl,skau ms<s;=re fok .;sh fï wh flfrys m%ldYj fmfkk ,laIKhfõ' yeu úgu m%;s,sx.slhka wdY%h lrkq ,nkafka woyia i.jdf.k fkdfõ'fujeks wh iu. ia:sr in|;d f.dvk.d.ekSug wmyiq jkafkao fï wh úksIaph ,nd.ekSug l,a.; jk neúks'
ulr ,.akh
ulr ckañhd ldurd. flfrys úfYaI we,aula olajkafka ke;e;a úfYaI n,mEï flfrka tjeks wjia;djkag fhuqjk fudjqka wkalsisu wfhl=g jvd m%n, f,i ;u wjYH;dj bgqlr .kS'
l=ïN ,.akh
l=ïN ,.ak ,dNshdf.a ldu Ôú;h jpkfha mßiudma; w¾:fhkau hym;a h' iemj;a h' rE imqj úreoaO ,sx.slhka wdl¾IKh lr.kafka h' ldu wdYdjka jeg lvqÆ ì§ug ;rï m%n< jqjo is;sú,af,ka ish,a, md,kh lr .; yels wreu yelshdjla fï ,.ak ,dNshka i;= ùu iqúfYaISh' ,sx.sl lghq;= j,§ b;du;a wdl¾IKh f,i m%;súreoaO ,sx.slhd jYS lr .ekSfï yelshdjla fudjqka i;= h'
ók ,.akh
hgm;ajq ldudYd we;af;ls' fudjqkaf.a rd.sl nj lsisu wjÈhl weúiaiqkfyd;a wkH yeu flfkl=gu jvd fõ.j;aj l%shdjg kef.kq we;' l,n,ldÍ njlska f;drj lghq;= lrkq ,nk fujqkaf.a wNHka;rh lsisfjl=g;a f;areï.; fkdyel' Ôú;fha jeä fldgila fujqka .;lrkqfha weÛ fírdf.kh' iudcfha lemSfmfkkakg lghq;= fkdlrk fudjqka ;u wjYH;djka imqrd.kafka fy<sorõ lsÍulska f;drjh'
wm iudcfha mj;sk u;hka wkqj fï i|yd úúO mqoa.,hkaf.a ,.ak n,mdk njg u; m,fjhs' wo wms lshkakg hkafka tu ,.akhka ;=,ska mqoa.,hkaf.a ,sx.sl Ôú;h ms<sn| lshfjk lreKq lSmhl=hs'
fuys olajd we;s lrekq Tnf.a flako%fha wfkl=;a .%yhkaf.a msysàï wkqj hï hï fjkialï we;súh yel
fïI ,.akh
Ôjfha wdrïNh ioyd fya;= jq ldu rd. njg wêm;s jkakd jq isl=reg fïI
ckauhdf.a flakao%fha y;ajeks Ndjh ysñùh' rdYs pl%fha y;ajekakg ;=,d rdYsh iïnkaO ùuksid ldfudoa§mk Yla;sh fydÈka mej;sug fya;=ù ;sfí' fïI ckañhdf.a ldu rd. nj m%;s,sx.slhdf.a m%fudaoh yd iemj;a nj kshudldrfhk´fí flakao%fha y;ajekafka isl=re fh§u wkHhka Tn fj; myiqfjka weo .ekSug wjYH n,hls'fï isl=reg l=cmf.a mú;% oDIaá we;sjQ l, fï ;;ajh jvd;a ÈhqKq lrhs'
jDIN ,.akh
n,iïmkak Woafõ. ckl ldfudoa§mk Yla;shla we;s jDIN ckañfhda ;udf.a rE imqj yd foay ú,ih úiska fufyhjkq ,nk ;;ajhla u.ska m%;s,sx.slhka m%n, f,i fkdikaiqka njg muqKqjkafkdah' jDIN ckañka ldu iïm;a ukdfldg ,eîug fya;= jdikd ,o mqoa.,hka fõ' fudyq ,sx.sl lghq;=j,È b;d olaI f,i m%;s,sx.slhd ji. lr.kS'
ñ:qk ,.akh
hqj;sm;s fofokdf.a ixfla;hlska ñ:qk rdYsh y÷kajd ;sîfukau ldu rd. njg by< wdYd we;s wh nj meyeÈ,s fõ' ñ:qk rdYshl Wmka wh ldu rd. núka WÉpia;dkh ,enqfjdah' ld,d risl nj" YDx.dr risl nj fudjqkaf.a iNdjfhda fj;s' fudjqka iajlSh iïfNda. iemh wfmalaId lrkafka §¾>
ld,Sk iqjhla ioyd neúka ;udf.a iyldr;ajh ;shqKq ffp;isl iam¾Yhlska je<o .kq ,nhs'
fudyq úiska ;reK iuh f.jkq ,nkafka iajlSh wNHka;r fõ.hka iuÛ ish fÉ;kdjka
wd,sx.kh lrkq ,eîfuks' fma%u rih fudjqkaf.a uOqr wdydrh fõ'
ñ:qk ckañhd ksrka;r rd.sl núka iukaú; fõ' fudyq tlu rifhka yeuúgu i;=gq fkdfõ' fujekafkla iu. újdy ù isák ;eke;a;d ta ms<sn|j oek.; hq;=h'
lgl ,.akh
lgl ckañfhda iajlSh ldu rd. nj l,d;aul iajrEmhlska Nqla;súÈkafkda fkdfj;s' idudkH f,daldiajdo r;sh flfrys .re lrk fï wh ri ri ujkafkdo fkdfj;s' ;ukaf.a ri f,d,;ajh wkHhka flfrys olajkq ,nkafka b.sfhks' yels yeu wjÈhlu wkHhkag fkdf;afrk whqßka ;ukaf.a woyia lshfõ' iudch yuqfõ fujeks wh isákafka ukd iqpß;jdÈka f,ih' fudjqka fndfydúg woyia iÛjdf.k lghq;= lrkafkda fj;s'
isxy ,.akh
isxy ,.ak ysñhd ldu rd. ðú;h fnfyúkau f.!rjdkaú;h' fldf;l=;a wvqmdvqlï ;snqk;a kSplshdjkag fm,fnkafkda fkdfj;s' iajlSh ldu rd. nj Wodr wkaoñka nqla;s úÈug fudjqka ;=, wfmalaIdj we;' fudyqf.a ldu Ôú;h ksid wfkl=;a fndfyda lreKq wjq,aùug bv we;'
isxy ckañhdf.a flakao%fha isl=re y;ajeks Ndjfha isákï m%sh rEm fidndjla we;slsÍug fukau wka wh ;ud fj; kïjd .ekSug n,hls' fï wh Wiia nqoaêhla yd Wiia iudc miqìula we;a;dy' jdikdjka; l¾hlaIu wfhl= iuÛ újdy Ôú;h .;lSÍug fï whg jdikdj ,efí'
lkHd ,.akh
fuu ,.ak ckañhdf.a iajNdjh kï ldu rd. nj iqpßj;a mßo Èúysñfhka /lSuhs' ldu rd. Ôú;h .ek fï whf.a mj;akd wrmßueiau mqÿu iy.;h' fudjqka iajlSh ldu rd. nj flf,id .;fyd;a th b;d l,d;=rlsks' ;reK úhg md ;nk lkHd ckañfhd ukd jQ ðú; yev.eiaulg Ndckh jkafkdah' n%yiam;s oyfha isáfhakï fuu ckañhdf.a újdy Ôú;h ksidu ÈhqKqjg m;alrjhs'
;=,d ,.akh
;=,d ,.akhg wêm;s isl=reh' tfiau wgjeks ia:dkfhao isl=reg wêm;s úh' fuu ia:dk folu isl=reg wh;aùu ksid ;=,d ckañhdg isl=ref.a n,mefuka fnfyúkau wkqjklï lsÍug bjy,ajk ;;ajhla oelsh yel' ;=,d ckañhdg fyd| ldu Ôú;hla ,eî ;sfí' l=c isl=re y;ajeks ndjfha fhda.h ;=,d ckañhdf.a ldu rd. nj uekúka m%ldY lrhs' fudjqka ldu Ôú;h wks;a yeu wxYhlgu jvd Wiianj i,lhs'
rEmfhka yd ;reKlñka f,<fok fudjqkaf.a foay ú,dIh m%;s ,sx.slhka fkdhsjiqï fok ;;ajhlg m;alrhs' tfy;a fuu fhda.h fikiqre úiska olsk ,oafoa kï fuu fhda.shdf.a ldu Ôú;h ;reK úfha§u ;udf.au wkqjklï ksid wjq,a lr.ekSug bv;sfí'
jDYaÑl ,.akh
ieÛjqkq woyia we;s njla fmkakqï lrhs' ;u yeu wjYH;djhla i|ydu wfkald ji.hg .ekSug W;aidy lrk fudyq wfkld ji.hg .ekSfï Wml%uh f,i ;u Yßr wx. p,kh lsÍu fuu ckañhdf.a úfYaI;ajhhs' fuu ,.akfhka Wmka ldka;djka ;=, fuu ;;ajh fnfyúka oelsh yelsh' ;u wfmalaIdj bgqlr .ekSug miqng fkdjk fuu jDIaÑl ckañfhda ;u wfmalaIdjkag úreoaOjk m%;s,sx.slfhda flfia fyda ;udfj; ji. lr.kq ,nhs' fuu fhd.fha Wmka ia;%ska udhd l%shdjkays w;solaIhska fõ'
Okq ,.akh
fudjqka ldu rd. nj wNS; iajNdjhlska hq;=j nqla;s úÈkafkdah' ieÛjqkq Ñ;a;fõ. fï whg ke;' mú;%j fl,skau ms<s;=re fok .;sh fï wh flfrys m%ldYj fmfkk ,laIKhfõ' yeu úgu m%;s,sx.slhka wdY%h lrkq ,nkafka woyia i.jdf.k fkdfõ'fujeks wh iu. ia:sr in|;d f.dvk.d.ekSug wmyiq jkafkao fï wh úksIaph ,nd.ekSug l,a.; jk neúks'
ulr ,.akh
ulr ckañhd ldurd. flfrys úfYaI we,aula olajkafka ke;e;a úfYaI n,mEï flfrka tjeks wjia;djkag fhuqjk fudjqka wkalsisu wfhl=g jvd m%n, f,i ;u wjYH;dj bgqlr .kS'
l=ïN ,.akh
l=ïN ,.ak ,dNshdf.a ldu Ôú;h jpkfha mßiudma; w¾:fhkau hym;a h' iemj;a h' rE imqj úreoaO ,sx.slhka wdl¾IKh lr.kafka h' ldu wdYdjka jeg lvqÆ ì§ug ;rï m%n< jqjo is;sú,af,ka ish,a, md,kh lr .; yels wreu yelshdjla fï ,.ak ,dNshka i;= ùu iqúfYaISh' ,sx.sl lghq;= j,§ b;du;a wdl¾IKh f,i m%;súreoaO ,sx.slhd jYS lr .ekSfï yelshdjla fudjqka i;= h'
ók ,.akh
hgm;ajq ldudYd we;af;ls' fudjqkaf.a rd.sl nj lsisu wjÈhl weúiaiqkfyd;a wkH yeu flfkl=gu jvd fõ.j;aj l%shdjg kef.kq we;' l,n,ldÍ njlska f;drj lghq;= lrkq ,nk fujqkaf.a wNHka;rh lsisfjl=g;a f;areï.; fkdyel' Ôú;fha jeä fldgila fujqka .;lrkqfha weÛ fírdf.kh' iudcfha lemSfmfkkakg lghq;= fkdlrk fudjqka ;u wjYH;djka imqrd.kafka fy<sorõ lsÍulska f;drjh'
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